SOUL GROUP XII

• QUESTION 1 & 2

88% of the participants in this group are female.

• QUESTION 3.1 DATE OF BIRTH

Participants have birthdays that fall within the following date ranges associated with specific Zodiac categories:

• Cancer: 16.7%
• Pisces: 16.7%
• Taurus: 12.5%
• Scorpio: 8.3%
• Virgo: 8.3%
• Libra: 8.3%
• Capricorn: 8.3%
• Aries: 8.3%
• Aquarius: 4.2%
• Leo: 4.2%
• Sagittarius: 4.2%

The only astrological sign not represented in the list is Gemini.

• QUESTION 3.2

BORN ON DAY OF THE WEEK

Participants were born on the following days of the week:

• QUESTION 4

TIME OF BIRTH

Participants were born on the following times:

33% of participants indicated that they do not know the time of their birth.

• QUESTION 5

PLACE OF BIRTH (COUNTRY AND TOWN)

Participants indicated that they were born in the following places:

• Two participants were born in other countries:
  • Kitwe, Zambia
  • Chinhoyi, Zimbabwe
• Participants that were born in the same towns/cities:
• Benoni – 2
• Johannesburg – 2
• Pietermaritzburg – 2
• Heidelberg – 2
• Pretoria – 3
• Birth places of other participants include:

Ladysmith, Nelspruit, Brakpan, Boksburg, Klerksdorp, Germiston, Vanderbijlpark, Bellville, Somerset East, Alberton, Florida.

• QUESTION 6

Blood type.

Participants indicated that they have the following blood types:

17% of participants indicated that they do not know what their blood type is.

• QUESTION 7

COLOUR OF EYES

Participants indicated that they have the following eye colours:

Brown (All shades) – 10,  Blue (All shades) – 10, Green (All shades) – 4

• QUESTION 8

NATURAL COLOUR OF HAIR

Participants indicated that they had the following hair colours:

Brown – 9

Light brown – 5

Dark brown – 4

Blonde (All shades) – 3

Red – 1

Black – 1

Grey – 1

• QUESTION 9

HEIGHT

The average height of participants in this Group is 1.66m.

• QUESTION 10

EDUCATION/QUALIFICATIONS.

The following is a breakdown of the National Qualifications Framework (NQF) levels in South Africa:

The following is a breakdown of the National Qualifications Framework (NQF) levels in South Africa:

• Up to Grade 12 corresponds to NQF Level 4, which is the National Senior Certificate (Matric).
• Diploma qualifications correspond generally to NQF Level 6 (National Diploma or Advanced Certificate).
• Degrees fall in NQF Levels 7 and 8:
  • Bachelor’s Degree is Level 7.
  • Honours Degree or Postgraduate Diploma is Level 8.
• Master’s Degree is NQF Level 9.
• Doctorate (PhD) is NQF Level 10.

Other qualifications such as Higher Certificates (NQF Level 5), Advanced Diplomas (NQF Level 7), and various occupational certificates also exist in the framework. The framework includes ten levels that provide a detailed and structured hierarchy of education qualifications in South Africa.

According to the answers provided by the participants the following NQF qualifications are mentioned:

• QUESTION 11

WHAT LANGUAGES DO YOU SPEAK?

Participants reported their proficiency in the following languages:

Afrikaans, English, French, Korean, British Sign Language, Zulu and Dutch.

• QUESTION 12

OCCUPATION

Based on the different occupations indicated by participants the following career categories can be identified:

Some participants indicated that they have more than one occupation.

• Management / Executive (Supply Coordinator, Warehouse Manager, Commercial Manager, Management Consultant, CFO/Financial Director, Manager, Risk Manager, Executive PA) – 8
• Administration / Clerical (Admin Administrator, Admin Clerk) – 2
• Finance / Accounting (Accountant, Cost Accountant) – 2
• Healthcare / Medical (Kinesiologist, Social Worker, Medical Specialist, Orthopaedic Surgeon, Body Stress Release Practitioner, Life Coach, Quality Officer in molecular diagnostics lab) – 7
• Education / Teaching (Yoga Teacher, Piano Teacher, Church Organist, Breathwork facilitator) – 4
• Self-employed / Entrepreneur (Restaurateur, Rental property manager) – 2
• Pensioner / Retired – 1

• QUESTION 13

MARITAL STATUS Participants indicated their marital status as follows:

QUESTION 14

DO YOU HAVE CHILDREN? (IF YES PROVIDE THEIR GENDER AND AGE)

83% of participants indicated that they have children.

• QUESTION 15

WHERE DO YOU FIT IN SIBLING WISE?

Participants provided the following answers:

• QUESTION 16

ACCORDING TO THE FAMILY STRUCTURE YOU WERE BORN INTO, WHAT CULTURE GROUP DO YOU BELONG TO?

The following answers were provided:

• Afrikaans/English/White.
• English South African.
• English.
• European.
• British.
• White Afrikaans.
• White Christian.
• White.
• English South African (white).
• White South African.
• South African.
• White – South African.
• White – South African.
• Afrikaner.
• White English speaking South African.
• Afrikaans White.
• White English.
• White Afrikaner.
• Afrikaans – white.
• White. 
• White. 
• Afrikaans South African.
• Afrikaans white.
• White Afrikaner.

• QUESTION 17

WHAT CULTURE GROUP CAN YOU BEST IDENTIFY WITH?

The following answers were provided:

• Afrikaans/English/White.
• South African.
• White English.
• European.
• South African English.
• Any..
• A culture of open-minded, honest people who do not buy into any kind of doctrine forced onto us by the powers that be.
• White.
• English South African (white).
• White South African.
• None specifically.
• Whites.
• My own cultural group.
• Afrikaner.
• Any culture group as long as we have the same principals.
• White English.
• White Afrikaner.
• European.
• White.
• White.
• Afrikaans White.
• White Afrikaner.

• QUESTION 18

WHAT IS YOUR RELIGIOUS PREFERENCE?

The following answers were provided:

• QUESTION 19

ARE YOU A MEMBER OF A SPECIFIC CHURCH (IF YES STATE WHICH).

The following answers were given:

54% of participants indicated that they are not members of a specific church.

Those who indicated that they are members of a specific church gave the following answers:

• Annie Ross Sanctuary.
• Sanctuary of Serenity & Centre of the Universal Mind.
• Methodist.
• Lewende Woord Montana.
• Mother Church (“Moederkerk”), Stellenbosch.
• Hervormde kerk.
• Dutch Reform.
• Methodist.
• NG Kerk.
• Reformed church.
• Renaissance Community.

• QUESTION 20

WHAT HOBBIES DO YOU HAVE?

The following answers were provided:

The hobbies mentioned more than once are:

• Reading      54%
• 17% of participants mentioned the following hobbies:
• Gardening.
• Hiking.
• Walking.
• 13% of participants mentioned the following hobbies:
• Cooking.
• Photography.
• Crocheting.
• Painting / Drawing.
• 8% of participants mentioned the following hobbies:
• Gym.
• Knitting.
• Crafts.
• Cycling.
• Travel / Travelling.

The following hobbies were only mentioned once:

Yoga, water sports, art, baking, bonsai, Zen gardens, listening to music, learning new things, stock market, sewing, Chirology, watching inspiring movies, machine embroidery, needlework, animals, handwork, scuba diving, scrapbooking, material paints, ceramics, mosaics, singing, horse riding, crossword puzzles, musician, working with hands, rebounding, tennis, paddle, self-improvement and study practices, healing modalities, adventure sport, guitar, drums, and wine collecting.

• QUESTION 21

DO YOU OR HAVE YOU EVER COLLECTED ANYTHING?

The following answers were provided:

42% of participants indicated that they have not collected anything.

Those who collect or have collected anything provided the following answers:

• Stamps.
• Good wood.
• A printer’s tray with little ornaments.
• Fabric, buttons, trim, cookery books, shoes.
• Oracle cards, books, necklaces, jewellery, small perfume bottles, esoteric objects like fairies and dragons, stones and little gifts from clients and friends.
• Yes, for fun not seriously.
• Stamps as a child.
• Hose riding.
• Writing paper, fluffy toys, erasers (all as a child).
• Succulents.
• As a kid Dinky cars, Matchbox cars, Meccano set but not an avid collector of anything now.
• Crosses, perfume bottles.
• Teapots.
• I collected stamps as a child. I have a small collection of guinea fowl (ceramic, beaded, pictures) but am not collecting these any more. I have a small collection of crystals. I keep things that may be useful to me in the future e.g. travel pamphlets and info, newspaper cuttings on health matters and environmental issues.
• Wine and whiskey.

• QUESTION 23

DO YOU VOTE IN THE NATIONAL ELECTIONS?

92% participants indicated that they vote in the national elections.

• QUESTION 24

ARE YOU INVOLVED IN ANY CHARITY ACTIVITIES?

67% of participants are involved in charity activities.

• QUESTION 25

WHAT IS YOUR IDEAL JOB?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Healing/medium/teacher.
• Yoga teacher.
• Landscaping.
• Being a photographer for National Geographic and visiting beautiful and isolated places.
• Still trying to figure that one out.
• Research Analyst/Stock market trading/investments.
• A job that includes some creativity where I am in charge with my hours, not many people, an occupation that serves a higher purpose and that has deep meaning and fulfilment.
• To have my own business.
• Finding solutions to problematic situations.
• My current job.
• A job where I have the power to bring real and sustainable change, through creativity and new thinking.  To do it on a holistic level and bring change that will help all people in business, i.e. to help people believe in themselves and find their own self determinism and to not be slowed down by arbitrary rules and fears.
• Care Taker, Counselling, Motivation of People.
• The one I am currently doing.
• To design clothes/ stylist.
• Being paid for being me.
• Teaching.
• Public Speaking.
• Don’t know.
• Any job where I determine my working hours.
• Life Coach.
• Ideally, I would like to work for myself doing the unique work I am divinely ordained to do, but this did not work out before when I gave up my job to do what I thought I should be doing. In the meantime, to use my skills to benefit others and bring me satisfaction; to work where I am appreciated and stretched; to work not too far from home so I don’t have to contend with too much traffic; flexible/part time working hours with time to attend to other commitments.
• Professional sportsman.
• Doing my ideal job.
• I love teaching the piano.

• QUESTION 26

ARE YOU WORKING IN OR HAVE YOU EVER HAD YOUR IDEAL JOB?

Participants answered as follows:

• 71% – Yes
• 29% – No

• QUESTION 27

WHAT IS YOUR STRONGEST SENSE?

Participants answered as follows:

• QUESTION 28

ARE YOU RIGHT OR LEFT-HANDED?

96% of the participants in this Group are right-handed.

• QUESTION 29

ARE YOU COLOUR BLIND?

None of the participants in this Group are colour blind.

• QUESTION 30

WHAT HEALTH ISSUE HAS CHALLENGED YOU PREDOMINANTLY IN YOUR LIFE?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Right foot, Headaches.
• Colds & flue.
• Got to 60 having never been to hospital or taken medication. Then -prostate cancer, blocked bile duct, leading to near general organ failure and collapsed liver. Serious motorbike accident a year ago resulting in losing an eye and slight brain damage. Chronic fatigue syndrome (recently). I tend to overwork but love it.
• Being overweight.
• Depression (familial) for which I was on antidepressants for 20 years.  (I went off anti-depressants cold turkey when I was in my late 40s).  I had ME for a couple of years in my late 30s/early 40s; that has a link to Hashimoto’s.
• Nothing.
• Stomach issues, IBS – nervous stomach, anxiety, bad blood circulation.
• None.
• Rheumatic fever, stomach ulcers.
• Depression.
• Headaches.
• Cholesterol, High Blood, Depression.
• Eyes: glaucoma. Arthritis/osteoporosis.
• None.
• Glandular Fever.
• Cancer.
• High blood pressure.
• Short sighted.
• Lungs.
• Head issues.
• Headaches until mid-life (no longer suffer from them). Since then – depression and anxiety (currently not suffering).
• Nothing until I torn my ACL at the age of 35.
• Bacterial infection.
• Lower back pain, hip weakness.

• QUESTION 31

WHAT OPERATIONS DID YOU HAVE? – PLEASE STATE AT WHAT AGE FOR EACH.

Those participants who had operations reported the following:

• Back operation (53 yrs).
• Wisdom teeth (17 yrs), Tonsils (32 yrs)
• Artificial lenses put into my eyes (50 yrs), Lost the tip of my left little finger in a gorge slide accident (55 yrs), Bracy therapy for prostate cancer (60 yrs), Hospitalised with collapsed liver (63 yrs), Blacked out while riding my motorbike. Lots of broken bones, cracked head and lost an eye (67 yrs).
• Tonsils (6), Polyps in nose (14), Thyroid (22), Gall Bladder Removal (43).
• Colonoscopy (37).
• Tonsils (5 yrs), x3 D&C (minor).
• Haemorrhoid operation (20), Caesarean with my children (age 31 and 34).
• Tonsils (28), C- Section (24 and 29).
• C-sections (32 and 34).
• Tonsils – Age 10, Extra bone on heel – Age 12, Ectopic pregnancy – Age 35/36.
• Hysterectomy 29, Tonsil’s 25, Shoulder right 3 times 30, 35, and 42.
• Hysterectomy (44), Lens replacements and stents in my eyes for relief of glaucoma (62).
• Appendix age 23, Selected operation Breast augmentation 29, Selected C- section 33 and 36.
• Tonsils – approximately 6 years. Wisdom teeth 18 years. Gynae 31 years.
• Hysterectomy at the age of 27, mastectomy at 70.
• Eye injury and cataract 45, Carpal tunnels (nerve entrapments) 68, 69, Shoulder injury (scope) 60, Avulsion of biceps tendon repair 64, Apisectomy 40, Coronary bypass 57, Umbilical hernia repair 63, Nerve entrapment groin (injury) 64.
• C sections with each child: 25 and 27. Breast augmentation 43.
• Tonsils – age 3, Teeth – age 7, Wisdoms – age 16.
• Appendix 6, Tonsils 10, Breast 45, Thyroid 50.
• Tubal ligation 1991 @ 35 years; haemorrhoidectomy 2001 @ 44 years; TVT (sub urethral sling – bladder support) 2012 @ 56 years; dental – extraction of 2 teeth on upper left side and implant process for front tooth (and removal & replacement of 9 mercury fillings) over period of several months 2013 @ 57 years .
• ACL reconstruction (35).
• Tonsils 6, Wisdom teeth 17, C section 30, hysterectomy 36, bacterial cyst removal 38, hernia repair 39.

• QUESTION 32

AS A CHILD DID YOU HAVE ANY LEARNING DIFFICULTIES?

• 71% of participants indicated that they did not have learning difficulties.

Those that indicated that they did have learning difficulties indicated the following:

• If stuttering is considered a learning difficulty, I had it as a young child, but outgrew it.
• Reading but could have been due to eye sight defect.
• Yes, I thought I was ADHD, but I didn’t realize it
• Dyslexia

• QUESTION 33

DID YOU HAVE HAPPY CHILDHOOD YEARS?

• Yes – 71%
• No – 21%
• Don’t know – 8%

• QUESTION 34

WERE YOU CLOSER TO YOUR MOTHER OR CLOSER TO YOUR FATHER?

Participants indicated as follows:

• Father – 38%
• Mother – 54%
• Neither – 4%
• Both – 4%

• QUESTION 35

AS A CHILD DID YOU HAVE AN IMAGINARY FRIEND?

Participants answered as follows:

• No – 79%
• Yes – 21%

• QUESTION 36

WHAT SITUATION CAN GENERATE THE EMOTION OF ANGER ALMOST IMMEDIATELY WITH YOU?

The following answers were provided:

• Animal cruelty.
• Cruelty to animals.
• Injustice.
• People being abrupt and rude or bad mannered.
• Cruelty of any kind (particularly to those who are vulnerable – human or animal) and abuse of power.
• Misbehaviour due to alcohol.
• Seeing someone litter, if I feel threatened by another woman in my relationship (I am horribly insecure & possessive), any situation where there is unfairness or lack of balance, greed, religious imbalances, organizations ruining the earth for money, pharmaceutical companies taking advantage of the public.
• Frustration of not being in control, people not following rules (such as taxi drivers)
• Cannot tolerate fools and liars.
• When people do things against my will.
• Unfairness.
• People that raise their voice to me. People that think I am stupid.
• Injustice and false accusations.
• Unfairness.
• Historically, injustice.
• When my children are being treated unfairly.
• People that are inconsiderate, animal abuse.
• Disrespect.
• My stepmother.
• Exploitation of people, lawlessness.
• Unjust.
• Things that does not work as it should.
• Unfairness.

• QUESTION 37

WHAT WOULD HAVE A CALMING EFFECT ON YOU – MOST OF THE TIME?

Participants answered as follows:

• Animals/children playing.
• Water.
• Meditation & nature.
• Music.
• Being near the sea; the passing of time; soaking in a bath; breathing techniques; walking; music; driving.
• Be by myself.
• A show of understanding and compassion by someone who can understand what I’m feeling. Getting away from people. Having a glass of wine.
• To feel save.
• Water.
• Being outdoor in nature, walking through my garden.
• To be close to water.
• Music.
• Music & Nature.
• Eating.
• physical touch or breathwork.
• Walking in a Forest in the veld or round the block or house.
• Time to think.
• Music.
• Nature.
• Meditation, walking.
• Nature, water.
• Being active or being out in nature.
• Silents.
• Change of perception.

• QUESTION 38

THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE WHAT PREDOMINANTLY CAUSES YOU STRESS?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Physical safety.
• Taking on too much workload.
• I used to thrive on stress, but financial stress is debilitating.
• Lack of money. Also, there is a lot of alcohol abuse in my family. That has caused a lot of problems and stress in my life.
• Less so since my transformation, but previously, being out of control (of a situation).
• Not really a stressful person.
• Crowds, people in general, life in general stresses me. I’m only calm in my own space with my partner or in secure surroundings.
• I worry about everything.
• Unfinished work/tasks.
• Unfamiliar/unknown situations, people not getting along – conflict.
• Myself, as I have very high standards.  I believe one can always do better / learn more.
• Emotions / Bad Relationships with men.
• Work and something I can’t finish, and interpersonal relationships causing tension.
• Money.
• expectations and judgement.
• Address an audience or do practical exams for instance Organ exams with 8 examiners.
• Lack of control of situations and life.
• Public speaking.
• Finances / Emotional issues.
• Men – relationships.
• Juggling priorities with time deadlines.
• Seeing the people closes to me struggle or suffer.
• People.
• I stress when pupils quit lessons. Where will I find replacements. If I cannot find my cat.

• QUESTION 39

WHAT DO YOU DO TO RELAX?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Sleep.
• Art, reading, meditation.
• Meditation & gardening.
• Read. Listen to music.
• Soak in a bath; go inward; swim; walk; read; watch TV (movies, series, Home channel, Lifestyle channel etc).
• Read, sew.
• Watch movies, read, sit in a quiet atmosphere in my own company or with my partner.
• Don’t know.
• Gardening/ Listen to music/ Drive around.
• Quiet time – read, or do something creative on my own like gardening, cooking, scrapbooking.
• Watch TV / Gym / Read.
• Write in my Journal. Listen to music. Move the furniture in my house do everything over.
• Watch tv, knit, crochet, walk.
• Ride my horse.
• spend time in nature, especially amongst trees. Or even just lying on the grass.
• Work in my garden, a hot bath read.
• Play piano, chat with friends, I don’t really relax a lot.
• Watch TV, Reading.
• Cook / reading.
• Walk, meditate breathe.
• Walk, meditate, sit on the grass, breathe deeply, go to the beach, listen to music.
• Exercise.
• Read.
• Read, crocheting.

• QUESTION 40

WHAT IS YOUR STRONGEST ATTRIBUTE?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Intelligence.
• Speaking out (voicing my opinion).
• Serial entrepreneur.
• Empathy. I quickly understand where people are coming from and it makes it easy for me to communicate with them.
• My word (it goes back to my ethical code).
• Perseverance.
• The fact that I can listen well to other’s problems and empathise with them.
• To help animals
• Strong Willed, analytical, empathy.
• Being intuitive and being able to read the vibes around me
• Solving problems.
• Loyalty.
• My empathy for others and my open heart and my sense of humour.
• Assertiveness.
• Kindness.
• Courage.
• Hard work, intelligence.
• Organising.
• Patience / perseverance.
• Intuition, organized.
• Providing stability and structure, integrity.
• Physical movement and skill.
• Memory.
• Perseverance.

• QUESTION 41

WHAT IS YOUR WEAKEST ATTRIBUTE?

The following answers were received:

• Lack of self-discipline.
• Not being able to say no.
• Trusting people too much.
• Judging people. A side of myself I do not like and work hard to monitor.
• Being too trusting of others.
• Concentration and discipline.
• Possessiveness in my relationship, inability to mix with people, fear, lack of trust.
• Patients with people who does not want to take good advice.
• Can’t say no.
• Being affected by other people’s emotions – brings me down.
• Impatience.
• Can easily be intimidated.
• Procrastination!!!
• Empathy.
• Lack of boundaries.
• Don’t know.
• Will power (lack of).
• Organising.
• Control freak.
• People pleaser.
• Lack of self-confidence.
• Sitting behind a desk to read or study.
• Temper.
• I don’t trust easily.

• QUESTION 42

WHAT IS YOUR CONCEPT OF GOD?

Participants provided the following answers:

• The One = The All.
• All-encompassing and unique to each individual.
• A cosmic energy.
• I see God as an all-encompassing power. He is in everyone and everything.
• God is our source, our spirit, our energy, our breath and His light dwells within us.
• Universal energy.
• A divine intelligence that is forever creating and that flows through everything.
• God is good and only want good for us and will not hurt anybody no matter what.
• Higher being & creator.
• God is everything good that we know. He is our Creator and our ultimate Guide.
• A high and good spirit.
• It is a higher-powered entity in the universe.
• For me, God is something or someone that is everywhere in my daily life. I see God in nature, in other people, in music.
• Part of everything.
• Connection to source.
• Almighty God.
• A personal god as taught by all organised religions does NOT exist BUT there is a general all-pervasive intelligence.
• Universe/ mother nature.
• Almighty.
• Divine love, truth.
• YHWH, the Ineffable (beyond definition) Loving Father, Creator of All including Me, who is Omnipresent (present in all things), Omniscient (all-knowing) and Omnipotent (power without limit), The One.
• Father figure, creator and redeemer.
• Geator of all and my saviour.
• There is no separate God. The All is One and the One is All. We are all together God.

• QUESTION 43

WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE COLOUR?

The following answers were received:

• QUESTION 44

WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE FOOD?

Participants provided the following answers:

• The following foods were mentioned more than once:
• Chocolate – 3 Times.
• Pasta – 3 Times.
• Pizza – 2 Times.
• Foods mentioned only once:

Watermelon, Fruit, Alaskan king crab and sushi, Steak, Crisps, Interesting assortments of different kinds of foods, Peri-peri chicken, Meat, Cheese, Fish and veggies, Veggies like a veggie bake / fish like a sole, Plants, Burgers and chips / Sushi / Seafood, Fruit and vegetables, Rice.

• QUESTION 45

WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE DRINK?

The following answers were received:

• The following beverages were mentioned more than once:
• Water – 6 Times.
• Wine – 3 Times.
• Coffee – 3 Times.
• Coke – 2 Times.
• Beverages mentioned only once:

Badam drink (almond milk), Coffee and tea, Juice (litchi or mango), No favourite, Gin & Tonic, Kefir milk, Passion fruit with still water, Chenin Blanc wine, Beer, Sparkling water, Rooibos tea, Mojito, Milo in milk, Soft drink (Cream Soda), Red wine, Anything with ginger.

• QUESTION 46

WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE TYPE OF MUSIC?

Participants provided the following answers:

• The following were mentioned more than once:
• Classical / Light Classical / Western Classical Art Music – 5 Times.
• Rock / Classic Rock / Alternative Rock – 4 Times.
• 80s / Eighties / 80 pops – 3 Times.
• Jazz – 3 Times.
• Blues – 3 Times.
• Variety / Depends on mood (mixed tastes) – 3 Times.
• Music types mentioned only once:
• St Saens.
• Chopin.
• Disco and New Wave & New Romantics.
• Alternative music.
• Pop.
• Dance music.
• Angry music.
• K-pop.
• Electrical.
• Heavy metal.
• Reggae.
• Hip-hop.
• Afrikaans.
• Country.
• Instrumental.

• QUESTION 47

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE INTUITION?

The following answers were received:

• Knowing without physical proof.
• Listening to the inner voice, recognising the first flash of thought/colour/sound/vision depending on what has developed in the individual (listening to the gut).
• Accessing your subconscious, being aware and trusting you gut feel.
• An ability to know or understand something that is completely out of your normal range of knowledge or experience.
• An inner knowing (without the need for conscious reasoning).
• Just knowing without thinking.
• The ability to listen to your heart. A strong feeling that overrides all other thoughts. A knowing instead of a thought.
• Instinct that must be followed.
• A feeling.
• Like 6th sense or feeling that enables you to pick up on the unseen and unspoken elements in a situation and almost be guided by that on how to respond appropriately, as opposed to reacting to hard fact.
• A higher, inner knowing or guidance.
• To sense and be aware of things around me.
• Intuition is what I use every day in my work. A feeling that I trust to guide me in decision-making. Very aware of it and believe that it is a big part of my life.
• Just to know things.
• making use of your other senses where you just know something.
• That interesting feeling to stay away from a situation.
• Knowing something that you don’t how or why you know it.
• It’s the voice at the back of your head. Comes from within.
• Sense of knowing without any specific reason.
• To absolutely connect to your heart to lead you.
• Related to sixth sense, instinctual, inner knowing without a rational deduction process.
• Six sense.
• Intuition is like a 6th sense, sometimes feels like you have been in the situation before and know how to act to the best outcome.
• A knowing, a nudge or something when your higher self-talks to you.

• QUESTION 48

HOW STRONG IS YOUR INTUITION?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Very strong/very good – 11 Times.
• Strong – 7 Times.
• Fair/Medium – 3 Times.

The other answers were:

• When I listen to it, it is normally correct, but my life is so busy that most of the time I don’t listen.
• Slightly more than average, I think, but could be developed more.
• Quite well.

• QUESTION 49

HAVE YOU EVER CONSIDERED SUICIDE?

33% of participants indicated that they have considered suicide.

• QUESTION 50

WHO WAS YOUR ROLE MODEL AS A CHILD?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Father – 6 Times.
• Grandmother – 3 Times
• No one – 5 Times.

The following answers were also received:

• Parents and older siblings.
• Don’t remember.
• My principal (a real lady).
• Mother.
• Sister-in-law.
• Crissie Evert (tennis).
• A friend 4 years older than me.
• Any warrior-like figure (superheroes, gladiators, sports figures).
• My grandfather.

QUESTION 51

WHO IS YOUR ROLE MODEL NOW?

The following answers were received:

38% of participants indicated – Nobody.

Other answers included:

Jesus, White Eagle; Mother Theresa; Elon Musk & Richard Branson & some Shangaan/Mozambique staff; Desmond Tutu; My Sister; My mother; father; Too old for that; Clint Eastwood and such people; My boss; Various Bible figures / Paulo Coelho; Guru Ji; Friends and husband as role models.

• QUESTION 52

DO YOU LIKE TO READ?

92% of participants indicated that they like to read.

• QUESTION 53

WHAT WOULD YOU PREFER TO READ?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Preferences mentioned more than once:
• Esoteric / Spiritual – 3 Times.
• Fantasy – 3 Times.
• Non-fiction – 3 Times.
• Other preferences include:

Business, history and an occasional novel; Inspirational books (including historical novel, thriller or fantasy); Technical/metaphysics/motivational self-help and on hobbies; Enlightening books giving insight on universe; True factual stories and angel books (Doreen Virtue); Depends on the situation – holiday novels, motivational, short stories, magazines; Romance, crime investigations, thriller/murder mysteries; Autobiographies; Any ‘Who Dunnit?’ (Deon Meyer’s books); Autobiography, Biography, Historical Novel; Magazines; Fantasy / Philosophy; Anything that makes me grow; History, fiction, inspirational stories of normal people.

• QUESTION 54

WHAT IS YOUR CONCEPT OF DEATH?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Transition to the next room, going home.
• Transition to after life.
• Transition to another state.
• Moving from one level to another. I firmly believe in reincarnation and feel there are many lives and realities. When we no longer learn on this level we die. I believe that between lives we are on astral levels also working on our spiritual progress.
• We’re planted here to fulfil our lessons (as per Soul contracts). Once we’ve experienced what we set out to experience, whether we’ve learnt what we needed to learn in this incarnation (or not), it’s time for us to go.
• Another stage of life/soul.
• A passing from one stage of consciousness to another, a transition back to spirit, or what we truly are energetically.
• Life at a better place!
• Start of the next life/stage/cycle…
• The passing from one world to another, or moving from a physical form to a more spiritual form.
• When your soul is no longer.
• Just a movement to another place (Level).
• It’s just another dimension to enter. Nothing to be afraid of.
• Not sure about death, but believe in after life.
• when the body dies and we are no longer able to engage in this physical environment.
• Beginning of a new phase.
• The end of your turn. Done and dusted.
• Different state or dimension after life.
• End of this life.
• Passing over into the light.
• Death is the dropping of the physical garment; the soul is immortal and continues to live.
• The end of life in flesh.
• Doorway to God.
• Waking up from the illusory dream.

• QUESTION 55

 IF YOU HAD A CHOICE WHAT WOULD BE THE EMOTION THAT YOU WOULD PREDOMINANTLY PREFER TO EXPERIENCE?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Peace.
• Serenity.
• Love, pride in others.
• Peace. Happiness.
• Peace.
• Calmness.
• The feeling of joy and gratitude, one feels when you feel connected and open to God.
• Goosebump happiness.
• Content and happy.
• Peace and happiness.
• Peace.
• To Relax and not so emotional. To stay in my comfort zone.
• Compassion.
• Love.
• Ease.
• Be satisfied with your life.
• Relief, contentment.
• Joy, love and content.
• Contentment / peace.
• Joy.
• Joy.
• Peace and content.
• Peace.
• Joy.

• QUESTION 56

DEFINE THE EMOTION YOU MENTIONED ABOVE.

The following answers were received:

• Peace – All is in God’s hand and safe.
• Serenity – Being at one with yourself and your surroundings.
• Love, pride in others – An intense welling up of emotions when people I love and am proud of achieve the best they can be.
• Peace. Happiness – Almost like contentment. Feeling like all is well with my life.
• Peace – Tranquillity and calm within.
• Calmness – No noise, peaceful vibe around.
• The feeling of joy and gratitude, one feels when you feel connected and open to God – A sense of overwhelming gratitude, love & joy.
• Goosebump happiness – Tranquillity, joy, relaxation, peace, honesty, truth.
• Content and happy – Not wanting or needing anything and joyful feeling.
• Peace and happiness – No conflict, no anxiety – finding joy and meaning/purpose in everyday life.
• Peace – Being happy and content with who, where and what I am.
• To Relax and not so emotional. To stay in my comfort zone – Don’t want to stress about everyday life and things want to be in a loveable relationship and don’t worry about money.
• Compassion – To always care… To have ‘compassion’ for the people around you and to understand in all situations.
• Love – To feel safe and cared for, peace and to give love.
• Ease – A relaxed calmness and at peace.
• Be satisfied with your life – to be satisfied with your life.
• Relief, contentment – Relief from having to struggle and contentment with what I have – which contributes to the relief.
• Joy, love and content – Feeling happy in oneself and relationships and situation.
• Contentment / peace – General sensation of happiness and calm.
• Joy – Sense of peace and calm.
• Joy – Filled with and showing exuberance, happiness, delighting in life.
• Peace and content – Being at peace with myself and surroundings. Knowing what and who I am. Being sure of where I am heading.
• Peace – A quietness in my mind sole and body.
• Joy – The excitement of following your passion.

• QUESTION 57

HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED THAT EMOTION?

88% participants indicated that they have experienced that emotion in the past.

• QUESTION 58

WHAT CAN AT THIS MOMENT GENERATE THAT EMOTION FOR YOU?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Peace – Connecting/meditating.
• Serenity – Total acceptance of this world as it is currently now.
• Love, pride in others – Thinking of my daughter.
• Peace. Happiness – Financial independence.
• Peace – Communicating with God, being near the sea, breathing techniques, seeing something of beauty or listening to calming music.
• Calmness – My choice where I want to be at any moment.
• The feeling of joy and gratitude, one feels when you feel connected and open to God – Enhancing the feeling of genuine gratitude and the intent to open to Mother/Father God.
• Goosebump happiness – Peace on earth and that everybody gets along (man and animal).
• Content and happy – Holiday, Time with family and friends.
• Peace and happiness – A hug from my children.
• Peace – Always chasing the next thing and believe you can always learn more.
• To Relax and not so emotional. To stay in my comfort zone – When I think too much and am alone with my thoughts and also an emotional eater.
• Compassion – If I encounter difficult circumstances and I can solve it with the right plan or answer.
• Love – Phone call from a loved one.
• Ease – mint ice cream.
• Relief, contentment – Accomplishing my dreams.
• Joy, love and content – Being with my loved ones.
• Contentment / peace – time in nature.
• Joy – Children, my dogs, my daughter.
• Joy – Music, intimacy, connecting with and actively playing with my grandchildren especially when they are expressing happiness e.g. skipping along the shoreline, sharing the wonders of nature with them.
• Peace and content – Achieving my goals and being part of my family day to day life.
• Peace – Meditation.
• Joy – Filling out this form.

• QUESTION 59

DO YOU LOVE ANIMALS OR PEOPLE MORE?

Participants responded as follows:

• QUESTION 60

WHAT WOULD BE THE ONE THING YOU WOULD WANT IN YOUR HEAVEN?

Participants provided the following answers:

• All the animals that have ever been.
• Animals.
• A parrot and a bull mastiff.
• My husband. I married the love of my life, and I hope somehow after death we will be given some time together. I hope we can just love one another without all the problems that life had on this level.
• Humour.
• Peace.
• Peace.
• No worries and trouble.
• A sense of peace.
• Happiness.
• Love and Exception (Perhaps acceptance?).
• Music.
• Horses.
• Trees.
• Re-unite with loved ones.
• Dogs.
• Dogs.
• Nature.
• Love.
• Choirs praising God.
• No physical and mental limit.
• A bed.
• There is no heaven. There are parallel realities with every possibility at every given moment. The pure state of being is all there is after death before you chose the next dream. The word want means lack of.

• QUESTION 61

 UP TO NOW IN YOUR LIFE WHAT HAS BEEN YOUR GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Overcoming temper.
• Being able to make a difference in someone’s life without intentionally setting out do so.
• Being a parent to an amazing daughter and keeping the family together under unusual circumstance so she can grow to her full potential in a stable family.
• Being a mother. My children make me feel my life was worthwhile.
• A few months ago, I had a massive realisation.  I became aware that I had gone from living in fear to living in love and for the first time ever, I loved myself.
• Having/raising a family with strong values.
• Being able to receive awareness that comes from a greater source than books or people. Developing my intuition.
• My studies, my children but there is still something missing… I think I did not have my greatest achievement as yet.
• My career and my sons.
• Summiting Kilimanjaro.
• Knowing who I am, through my children and my work.
• Spiritual growth.
• To have a child and also now to be a grandmother.
• Raising my kids different from my upbringing.
• Resigning as a social worker and trying different things.
• Being the first women to be appointment as Sheriff.
• Successfully raising two adopted daughters as a single parent and still have good relationships with them.
• Having raised 2 well-adjusted and responsible children that contribute to society and stand on their own feet in spite of the difficulties they faced growing up.
• Changed my life direction – new job new life style. Moving to the Netherlands in 2020.
• My daughter.
• My spiritual journey – learning to know myself – overcoming resentment challenges and finding better balance (e.g. between left brain and right brain activities).
• Currently working on it and that is completing my specialization in orthopaedic surgery.
• Seeing my kids grow up.
• Realizing that I’m one with All that is and holographically imbued with all Godlike qualities thus creator of my own reality with the free choice that I have.

• QUESTION 62

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE PASSION?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Spiritual determination kickstarted by strong emotion.
• An all-consuming positive drive.
• The thrill you get from doing what you love.
• Almost an obsession with something. Something you work very hard at and love every minute. Something you find that satisfies your soul.
• Finding that spark which ignites that va va voom within one – not necessarily in a sexual way.
• Time stand still.
• A deep intense heartfelt drive that is unstoppable and emanates from the depths of your being.
• Something that you really really want or love.
• Complete dedication and feel total ease.
• An energetic drive to achieve something that you really want, something that makes you feel fulfilled.
• Unstoppable enthusiasm and energy.
• To put everything in that what you love most.
• Passion is to do something wholeheartedly, to enjoy.
• Something that you can’t do without.
• something that drives you. It’s so important to you that you are motivated even on ‘bad’ days.
• Where your whole life is dedicated to a cause.
• A mental and emotional mindset that drives you to accomplish dreams and ambitions.
• A deep rooted, natural love, interest or yearning.
• Natural drive with joy as an end product.
• Driving desire within yourself.
• An abiding and intense interest that captures your attention and sparks your enthusiasm, dominates your thoughts, makes your heart skip a beat when you think about it, something that you do not tire of.
• Something that drives one to inspire and be the best version of yourself.
• A hunger for something.
• The excitement to do or be what you truly desire that vibrates according to your own vibration.

• QUESTION 63

IF YOU HAD TO GIVE EXPRESSION TO YOUR EMOTIONS IN A CREATIVE WAY, HOW WOULD YOU DO IT?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Heal all kinds of pain.
• Art.
• Creating situations where you take people out of their comfort zone, so they experience an intense visceral pleasure.
• Paint.
• I created a clothing range for little girls aged 4-8. That unearthed a real passion in me!
• When you are happy show it, when you are angry quiet yourself and walk away.
• By drawing, listening to music or dancing.
• Needle work or creating something with my hands, any form of art (anything I can create physically or visibly) and playing the violin (want to learn).
• Arcing.
• Probably through painting a picture.
• Acting / Drama.
• To redo my house shift furniture curtains and so on.
• Music… Different music, from rock to classical, can express my emotions.
• Movement of my hands.
• Dance.
• Paint a beautiful table cloth.
• I don’t think I am very creative at all so I’m not sure. Most probably making music.
• Draw.
• Paint or colouring – using the colours to express / photographs.
• Paint, draw, sing.
• Write, bake…I do not do enough of this.
• Music and dancing.
• Cook.
• Play the piano.

• QUESTION 64

WHAT HAS LIFE TAUGHT YOU SO FAR?

Participants provided the following answers:

• We are never alone.
• Happiness and contentment is entirely my own responsibility.
• How to walk in other people’s shoes.
• To be strong. Never give up. That life is good and filled with love and beauty.
• Find out who you are, and do it with purpose. When you can’t control what’s happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond. Use words carefully and deliberately i.e. the use of I AM and the power they yield – what you put in after them shapes your reality. Every cell in your body is eavesdropping on your thoughts. A grateful heart is a magnet for miracles. Be kind.  It costs nothing.
• Life is precious and goes faster than you think, so make the best of each day.
• Not to trust people. Listening to your own inner guidance, the world is false.
• Very few people has standards and norms.
• People are awful.
• Life is not fair, and life is difficult.
• You make your own happiness.
• To always as far as you can be true to yourself.
• Nothing should be taken for granted. You think you know, but you never know everything. The older i get, the less i know. Worry less about things, few of the things you worry about become true. Always do your best; you will never please everyone, and that’s okay. The assembling of earthly things may be important to you, but none of it you can take with you. It is more important that you have peace within yourself; that is what matters.
• To live every day to the max.
• tones of things. We are all on our own path. Where are here to heal, unlearn and evolve.
• Not that I always succeed.
• It’s not fair BUT sometimes the unfairness is against you – live with it, and sometimes it is unfair in your favour – appreciate it.
• To be in the moment, life is not about the things you own, it’s about the experience and the memories you make and the relationships you build with the people close to you.
• Happiness is a choice.
• Too much.
• Generosity of spirit; gratitude; more respect for living things including people, animals, nature and mother earth.
• Humbleness, unconditional love.
• To always be open to learn more.
• To forgive because your reality is a reflection of your own thoughts and beliefs about yourself that you reflect upon the others you project into your reality.

• QUESTION 65

WHAT ADVICE OR WORDS OF WISDOM WOULD YOU LIKE TO PASS ON TO THOSE YOUNGER THAN YOU?

The following answers were provided:

• You are never alone and very very loved by your higher selves in spirit.
• Be prepared to put in more than what you expect to get out.
• We tend to learn by our mistakes so listen to the advice you are given but go and experience things for yourself and hopefully the advice will kick in and will save you from a fatal accident.
• That everything that you do and think counts. As a person I can do nothing to stop a war in Iraq or help a starving child in Sudan. But I can be the best person I can be in my own sphere. If I am a loving, kind, caring, positive, uplifting person in my own sphere I affect everyone around me. Good vibes get passed on! Almost like a stone that gets dropped in a pond. The ripple the stone makes goes out and out. And so, the goodness reaches many people.
• Invest in yourself, it pays dividends. To girls especially, become friends with your body. What other people think of you is none of your business. From your very first salary, invest a portion (however small) every month and watch the wonders of compound interest at play.
• Attitude and gratitude!
• Do not trust the media, doctors, lawyers, government, or religious institutions. Be teachable but decerning when taking advice. Listen to your heart, try to experience as much as you can while you are young.
• Do what you want to do in life and don’t pursue someone else’s dream, follow your passion, doesn’t matter what it is.
• Life is not fair, and life is difficult. Don’t give up the feeling is great when you succeed, and loosing is not bad provided you learn from it.
• To be truly happy you need to listen to your inner voice. Move away from people/situations that make you feel bad and towards people and situations where you can feel good about yourself and build your strengths. Also, there is something to be learned from everyday situations, good or bad. Always find the lesson and remember it.
• Do not limit yourself; you can do anything, as long as you believe in yourself.
• Be aware to your inner sense and be aware.
• Enjoy life, don’t have so many hang-ups. Be yourself. Look after your health. Sometimes do something that scares you.
• Don’t sweat the small stuff.
• there is a light within you, keep trusting yourself.
• Live according to the principles of the Bible for a happy life.
• Remember when you are dead you are gone for good from THIS life. You have one turn on this merry-go-round, use it wisely.
• Life is not a destiny, it’s a journey, enjoy the journey. Find joy also in the hard times, each moment counts.
• Let go of what does not make you happy / move on.
• Be present in each day – it’s a gift.
• Learn to forgive, drink plenty of water and let food (preferably directly from nature, not in cans and jars) be your medicine; how you conduct yourself today paves your future path so live the most honourable life you can.
• Life is short, nothing is for free, love with everything you have, forgive and move on, stay humble.
• What others think of you has nothing to do with you.
• Follow your excitement to the best of your ability.

• QUESTION 66

WHAT IS YOUR MOTIVATION TO GET OUT OF BED IN THE MORNING?

Participants provided the following answers:

• Dogs and cats give love; one misses it while asleep even if they are on top of you – needs reciprocation.
• Brand new day that all belongs to me to enjoy.
• Coffee! and completing any project that I’m busy with.
• I love my life. I have no problem getting up in the morning.
• I think of each day is a gift and don’t return it unopened.
• Hallo God what a lovely day! (I never wake up in a bad mood)
• My partner, I don’t have much motivation at the moment.
• Coffee..
• To tackle the day ahead and try to add something worthwhile to whatever I am doing. Need to feel needed.
• Making a difference in the world.
• To make a difference / have a purpose.
• To see what this day is all about.
• The fact that i am grateful to have a job and the service i can provide to others.
• Family and my horses.
• perceived expectations of others.
• Tasks like – taking grandson to school or a reconciliation that has to be done – just knowing there are tasks.
• Got stuff to do – purpose, I’m still working full time.
• A new day, with new experiences.
• Life.
• To ensure that I’m the best version of myself every day.
• To contribute and serve, to do my part to make the world a better place, to make the most of every day.
• Currently my family, before then – challenges and adventure.
• My kids.
• Hunger.

• QUESTION 67

IF IT WAS POSSIBLE TO CHOOSE A SPECIFIC TIME IN THE HISTORY OF THE WORLD TO LIVE IN WHICH ERA, WOULD YOU CHOOSE?

46% of participants indicated that they prefer living in the present era.

The following answers were also received:

• Atlantis.
• India in the early-1800s.
• The future where we have elevated beyond the cruelty and hardship of this existence.
• Victorian time.
• 1800’s – 1920.
• 1400 – 1600.
• To be an adult in the 60s… when I was born.
• I believe I have lived in many time periods and am meant to be here now. Where I was younger, I wanted to live in 1800s when I felt that expectations were clearer then. But I have evolved since that belief.
• The 1960 to 1990 in RSA.
• Medieval queen with dragons.
• The time of druids / Sixties.
• The era when Egyptians and Faro’s rule the world.

• QUESTION 68

CHOOSE THREE ARCHETYPES THAT YOU CAN IDENTIFY WITH.

ONE OF THE THREE SHOULD BE AN INDIVIDUAL FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX.

Not all participants answered this question.

The following archetypes were mentioned more than once:

• Healer – 5 Times.
• The following were mentioned 4 times:
• Caregiver, Mentor, Lover, Sage.
• The following were mentioned 4 times:
• Warrior, Magician, Ruler, Innocent      .
• The following were mentioned twice:
• Orphan, Philosopher.
• The following Archetypes were only mentioned only once:
• Server, Priest, The Wise Woman, Nurturer, Spiritual intellectual caregiver, Hermit, Mystic, Member, Hero, Angel, Hedonist, Rescuer, Jester, Artemis, Athena, Apollo, Mother, Creator (appears twice but in different compound contexts, not repeated alone), Explorer, Seeker, Wanderer, Pilgrim, Hero/Warrior (compound), Wise old Woman.

•         QUESTION 69

WHAT WAS THE BIGGEST COMPLIMENT YOU HAVE RECEIVED IN YOUR LIFE?

The following answers were received:

• Don’t remember.
• Having my dad believe in me and having old staff making contact to thank me for having a hand in their success.
• It was from my husband. He said that I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He said he learnt from me, and it made him a better person. An amazing compliment.
• From my husband – “My love, when you aren’t with me, I’m living in perpetual darkness.  I long for your return because the minute you walk through that door, I see sunshine!”
• “You should have been a twin – too much brain for one!”
• A woman who was dying thanked me after we spent an afternoon over a bottle of wine while I spoke to her about reincarnation and my understanding of Mother/Father God. She thanked me and told me she felt more peaceful and at ease about dying after we had spoken.
• That I am friendly and are a good person.
• That I have been a successful single parent – both career wise and raising amazing sons.
• Someone I worked with previously that said, “I was initially scared of you, but thanks for pushing me to believe in myself and be good at my job”.
• You are an Angel.
• That i have beautiful eyes.
• That I am kind and caring.
• I am kind and no judgemental.
• You’re a good man.
• That I am the strongest woman my daughter knows and that I am her mentor.
• That I’m a good person.
• Strength of myself.
• 15/11/15 SMS to me “…for Your Love Light Purity Wisdom Amazing Mind and Absolute Heart-felt dedication to the Divine ~ the Human Words ‘Thank You’ do not begin to convey the Deep Sense of Value and Appreciation I feel for all the Energy and Knowledge and sense of Sisterhood I feel in Your Presence. To be able to share so much and be able to Trust the Person is so Comforting and Enlightening. Thank you for the Beautiful Gift, the Healing, but Thank You Most of All for the Treasured Gift of You!”
• You do have what it takes to be a man and warrior in this life on earth.
• How do you know this? (I read a lot, but sometimes feel I have knowledge that was not obtained by me).
• That I could be in the Zone with a piano recital.

• QUESTION 70

DEFINE A RELATIONSHIP IN GENERAL – THE CONCEPT OF A RELATIONSHIP – FROM YOUR PERSPECTIVE.

Participants provided the following answers:

• Interaction between two or more beings.
• Allowing people to be themselves, enjoying the differences and supporting them in the best they can be.
• Two people that make a commitment to each other. Being prepared to give and take. Being prepared to work hard at loving and understanding the other. Being prepared to forgive short comings. Being prepared to love without holding back.
• A strong connection with another, which needs to be nurtured in order to flourish.
• Mutual respect and acceptance.
• A friendship. A sharing of ideas and ideals. A teaching and learning, a sharing of experiences, both easy and difficult and being able to stay together in harmony even after disagreements or difficult times.
• Someone who listens, having a mutual intelligent conversation, have respect for one another and allow you to be yourself, truthfulness, honest, sincere, mutual understanding of morals and standards, understanding, having compassion, committed.
• Someone that you can share with. You need to be considerate, tolerant and forgiving. Give and Take
• Two or more people that relate to / or connect with each other to create emotions (personal and intimate relationships) or for a specific purpose in order to achieve a result (business / commercial type relationships)
• To be trust worthy, loyal and show appreciation for what I did for you.
• Unconditional acceptance of personalities. You don’t necessarily have to love everything about the person, but understanding their uniqueness. The relationship should not be a challenge, but a harmonious connection of two souls.
• The upholding of relations with someone.
• A mutual beneficial interaction with another being.
• Shared interests, respect, caring and laughing together.
• Not sure what relationship but I supposing romantic, sexual? Just sharing all of our lives good and bad with each other.
• A bond between people that directs their interactions.
• Two-way interaction between people in the form of words and actions.
• Firstly myself – ongoing work in progress.
• We are in relationship – connected, linked via our hearts – with everything else all the time, with ourselves, with the Divine, with other people, with animals, with plants and minerals, elements and objects around us. We have an effect on all these, and they have an effect on us.  
• A bond with another person (family, friend, spouse) on a physical or emotional level. Understanding. Learning, growing and sharing with that person.
• A common connection with someone, shared interest or a bond.
• Respecting the other’s point of view and loving unconditionally.

• QUESTION 71

IF YOU DID NOT KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE HOW OLD WOULD YOU SAY YOU WERE – HOW OLD DO YOU FEEL?

• 70% participants indicated that they feel younger than their current age.
• 17% participants indicated that they feel older than their current age.
• 13% participants indicated that they feel their current age.

• QUESTION 72

WHY DO YOU FEEL THAT AGE?

The following answers were received:

• Physical body damaged.
• I’m healthy and energetic.
• I enjoy the company and relate well to young people and am still physically in good shape and can still work hard.
• It’s as if my mind got stuck there. It is just my body that has aged.
• I don’t think of myself as old.  I might look my age, but I’m still young at heart and in mind.
• I’m blessed with good health and still feel vibrant.
• Not sure why. I don’t feel I grew up and accepted this world and the way it has been setup.
• I feel energetic and can-do things that a 35 can do but have more brains… (maybe this is wishful thinking…)
• No physical ailments and I’m still active. I feel no different than how I felt 10 – 20 yrs ago, perhaps a little more confident.
• Wisdom from life experiences and inner knowing, younger in spirit and body due to my energy.
• Because that was the most wonderful, happiest time of my life.
• Always full of energy, humour, and zest for life.
• I’m young at heart and still learning new things every day.
• I am only starting to work out what I feel I need to do in life.
• I can still do whatever I want to do within limits.
• I feel about the same now as I did then.
• Emotionally I am happy. Physically I feel strong, mentally and financially content. I feel at the prime of my life and that’s the age I associate with prime.
• There is a change on a physical level / wisdom with age – I choose better on what to put my energy in.
• Young at heart – feel good.
• My spirit is youthful; I am fit and healthy.
• Feel I can achieve, learn and experience so much more where I am in life.
• Overthinking.
• I felt like that when I realized that I’m queen of my own reality at age 9 and that feeling never changed.

• QUESTION 73

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE SADNESS?

The following answers were received:

• Pain or harm caused to living beings.
• Emotion or feeling of being unhappy.
• A heaviness, usually around loss for the things not achieved yet.
• An emptiness. A lack of something. A feeling of loss.
• Emotional pain as a result of grief, loss, disappointment, rejection, tragedy etc.
• An ache somewhere in your heart.
• Deep despair. A well of tears inside. A sore heart.
• Pain, heart sow, crying, lonely.
• An emotion associated with pain, sorrow or loss. It hurts.
• An overwhelming heavy feeling in your chest and head that wants to make you cry.
• Low energy. Very sad and emotional.
• It’s the emotion that can cause physical pain.
• Something that happens that was not planned.
• an emotion that limits me and makes me feel low, no motivation, perhaps tearful at times.
• Loneliness.
• Loss.
• It’s a natural emotion of deep despair due to loss. It could turn into feelings of darkness and isolation if a person does not get relief of the constant feeling of sadness.   
• Experiencing a loss be it a person, dreams, expectations, opinions.
• A feeling opposite to joy – disappointment.
• A feeling which dampens the spirit.
• A feeling that leaves one in despair.
• A loss of self.
• When you realize that the moment is gone forever and that you can change nothing of what had happened.

• QUESTION 74

HOW DO YOU MANAGE SADNESS WHEN YOU EXPERIENCE IT?

The participants provided the following answers:

• Postpone it to the year after.
• Just feel it and then let it wash over you.
• I cry. I write down how I feel and that usually becomes a process that helps me through that specific time.
• It really depends on the situation and my head space.  Sometimes I turn to food, but I’m getting better at “feeling” it and riding that wave, until it passes.
• I cry.
• I withdraw and cut myself off from people. I often have a glass of wine if I can’t deal with it.
• I cry very hard and want to be alone.
• Deal with it and get on with life. One needs to work through the emotion but not allow it to take over your life. Often by listening to music or just be alone for a while.
• I withdraw, hope that people notice, but don’t really like to share.
• I generally suppress it, think of something else.
• Cry. Keep my distance from people and wants to be alone.
• Breathe, look at the positive, be in nature, listen to music.
• I remove myself.
• Move, connect to nature.
• Talk to a friend talk to God.
• Tough it out, go through it, deal with the loss get on with it with a little help from alcohol.
• I let it be. Feel the sadness and let it come out. Cry if I must, scream if I have to. I don’t cry in front of other people though.
• Allow it to be for a bit and see how to adjust to live with it.
• Write.
• Allow it and experience it, but don’t wallow in it. Sit in the sun, listen to Handel’s Messiah or other uplifting music to lift the spirit.
• Try to understand what brought on the feeling. Analyse the situation or event and determine if I can do anything out of my power to change what’s at hand. This doesn’t happen in an instant, but takes time and therefore I will be quite and withdraw from people. I will then seek guidance in prayer and from mentors in my life.
• I escape, read, isolate, hypnosis.
• Thinking that it was all made up. A projection of my reality for me to learn something from.

• QUESTION 75

WHEN LAST DID YOU CRY FROM THE HEART?

37% of participants indicated that they recently (the past year to current date) cried from the heart.

63% indicated that it was longer than a year since they cried from the heart.

• QUESTION 76

WHY DID YOU CRY IN THAT WAY?

The following answers were received:

• Knowing our relationship/time was over for now.
• My mother died.
• For her loss opportunities and the fact that I never really got to know her.
• Going through my paperwork I came across my husband’s death certificate and read it. I was overcome with a sense of loss.
• It was the realisation of knowing that he wouldn’t be with me in his physical form any longer.
• Loss and his release from pain.
• I’m not sure. Sometimes I wake up sad for the world, sometimes I dream of something that hurts me, sometimes I feel hopeless about myself, ever being able to overcome past hurts.
• Because I cannot control a really bad situation.
• When my father passed on.
• Realised the end of a journey. My mom was like a part of me, and she had suffered from cancer for 7 yrs, and we had lost my dad 3 months earlier, she was my last “link” to my childhood.
• My puppy died after suffering in a terrible way.
• Missing my mother and was feeling so hopeless in my existing relationship.
• Loss and disappointment about a relationship that is not what i thought it would be.
• I felt the sorrow of others – it was not my own.
• I felt sad.
• My husband passed away.
• Sadness for suffering especially of animals.
• She represented a very large part of my life, happy and sad. She was just always there and represented pure and unconditional love, through it all. I felt like when I cried for her, I cried for her, I cried for a lot of things. 
• My brother and father passed away in the last 3 years and they were not there to see me get married.
• Felt so lost and hurt.
• ‘Cry the Beloved Country’ – I was touched by the efforts of a group of farmers to help one another to cope with the inability to  produce food for the people and livestock losses in this period of extreme drought, and yet someone in a position of authority with the capacity to help  showed a distinct lack of caring or compassion at their plight and the implications of the situation for the country, and even laughed.
• Watched a moving that brought on an emotion of longing and care for another person. Saying goodbye to my family when having to leave back home.
• Physical pain.
• I cried with sadness when I read a poem my late husband had left me to explain his deepest thoughts about the structure of the universe. I cried for not giving him more understanding and unconditional love.

• QUESTION 77

 WHEN LAST DID YOU LAUGH LIKE A CHILD?

• 75% of participants indicated that they recently (the past year to current date) laughed like a child.
• 25% indicated that it was longer than a year since they laughed like that.

Noteworthy answers:

• Never.
• This question worried me so much I even dreamt about it! It is years since I laughed with abandon. Yet I am a happy person. The last two and a half years have been difficult. I hope to laugh again with abandon soon!

• QUESTION 78

WHY DID YOU LAUGH IN THAT WAY?

The following answers were received:

• My dogs were teasing each other.
• My Shangaan staff are constantly creating those situations. Its looking for the humour in simple things.
• The last time I can remember laughing like that was when a group of us were at a nature reserve in 4×4’s driving on some dunes. We had such fun and there was so much laughter. I can remember my sides being sore from all the laughing.
• I received a video clip which, when I think about it, still makes me laugh out loud because I find it so funny!
• With my son – comedy on TV.
• We woke up at midnight and could see the humour of where society is at the moment.
• I watched an animation movie.
• I was happy and having fun.
• Can’t remember.
• Watching a very funny video clip
• To hear the things, they say and do.
• Life is a song, and there is always something to laugh about if you have a good sense of humour.
• Realising how stupid some things are.
• I always laugh when I teach ‘happy baby’ yoga pose.
• It brings me joy when he plays with me, because he does not show that side. of him to a lot of people. It’s very special and he is very funny.
• Being spontaneous and playful with my husband.
• With my niece – 8 years old.
• To start with it was contrived, but as we continued, it became genuinely funny, and I enjoyed it very much.
• Listening to a stand-up comedian.
• Because I behaved ridiculously funny on my own.

• QUESTION 79

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE WITH WHO YOU CURRENTLY ARE – YOUR SELF-CONCEPT?

• 46% indicated – Yes.
• 21% indicated – No.
• 33% indicated – Mostly.

• QUESTION 80

PROVIDE REASONS FOR YOUR PREVIOUS ANSWER

The following answers were provided:

• Changing many things now to become who I need to be.
• It is no longer important for me to seek acceptance from other people but more important to me to be true to myself.
• I’ve learned a lot from my experience and am wiser, but I’ve lost confidence as a result of my injuries and bad decisions from trusting people, so myself concept seems a bit fuzzy at the moment.
• I was a very lost person as a teenager and in my early twenties. I feel one of the huge advantages of growing older is that you understand who you are and what you stand for.
• As per No 58. It’s been transformational for me.  I now view everything through a different lens.
• I don’t trust myself on decisions.
• I feel I’m going in the right direction, I have done a lot of inner work, and I feel I’m starting to accept who I am sometimes
• I am truthful to myself and others, I have a strong opinion of believes (others might struggle with my strong personality) but I am open for change. I have high morals and standards and struggle with others that don’t have it, but don’t push it onto anybody. I am a good listener and think I can give good advice (I just wish I can get it back – someone that will listen to me and give me good advice)
• If one is not happy with oneself then change what you do not like. Most things can be changed.
• I feel too influenced by other people moods and behaviour. I’m learning to detach a little so that I can maintain my inner peace without getting sucked up into other people’s negative emotion and crisis situations.
• Who I am – Yes, What and where I am – No. I feel directionless and stagnant.
• I want to be more productive, be better to myself and appreciate myself more.
• At this stage of my life, I have already learned that you cannot be what others want you to be; you must be yourself. Be your true self, if people don’t like that, it is not your problem, but theirs.
• I have done my part- now enjoying my successes.
• It’s taken me 46 years to get to where I am, I have unlearned and am still unlearning, so that I can connect to my true self, my spirit, my authentic self.
• I am staying with my daughter and grandson and 4 dogs. We have lots of fun.
• I have not achieved everything I hoped but it’s OK.
• Personally, I am happy and content with where I am and who I am. One can always grow, but overall, I think I am in control of myself. I am happily married now; my children are doing well. Financially we are stable and growing in the right direction. At work I think I can still improve. I need to say what I think more, and in a professional way, work on my work relationships more.
• Learning to be less opinionated and to forgive easier. Expect less especially from the kids.
• Grown for 15 years – still working.
• The teachings I follow would advocate acceptance of who we are as perfect sparks of the Divine; however, I feel I need to be less serious, smile and laugh more, indulge in fun things, learn more self-worth, have more confidence and focus.
• I know I can be in a better physical shape. I can be good if not the best in my occupation. I can be a better husband and father. All of this because I feel that time is my enemy and fighting against it every day.
• Self-knowledge, knowing how I am and happy with myself.
• I understand the fabric of creation. That I have reason to be here to complete All that is in my own unique way.

• QUESTION 81

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE A DREAM?

The following answers were provided:

• An idea of something in future that could be nice.
• Images, thoughts and ideas whilst asleep that can be recalled whilst awake.
• Stuff coming up from your subconscious.
• Dream – as in a goal. Something you would love to do or achieve. Dream – the mysterious language of the night. (I am currently studying dream interpretation. A big interest of mine.)
• Depends on the context – either an outcome one is passionate about achieving or the happenings which take place in one’s mind during sleep.
• Something from your subconscious popping up in a dream – sometimes a message – sometimes just something you experience during the day.
• Either a release of the day’s events, tapping into another level of consciousness, psychic foretelling, or your higher self or beings giving you information.
• Something that you really want but think it won’t come true.
• Subconscious brain or perhaps out of body experience.
• A subconscious thought or possibility that plays out in your mind.
• A future state of “wantedness”.
• A wonderful place to escape to with no regrets and no rejection.
• A dream is what plays out in your subconscious when you sleep. I always try to analyse it and wonder where it comes from.
• I have no definition.
• an experience while you are sleeping.
• Something you wish for.
• I assume one while sleeping? Your subconscious trying to tell your conscious something. Or a dream is something you hope to become or do.
• A dream is an idea that grows a life of its own in the subconscious state of a person’s mind when they are sleeping.
• Subconscious mind sending you messages or the ideal concept for your life.
• Subconscious guiding you.
• An idea or goal of something that you would like to manifest in the future, without a timeline.
• A tool. Whether it is used to communicate, create, escape or fantasise.
• A longing for something.
• A story taking place in your own consciousness. When it is over it is over and not real.

• QUESTION 82

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE EVIL?

The following answers were provided:

• Anything that harms/destroys/hurts wilfully other life forms.
• An event or act that is morally wrong according to my set of values.
• It’s a construct often used by religions to keep people in line. Mostly there is a positive and negative to everything. You can’t have one without the other, but it does raise some interesting theosophical questions about why inherently bad.
• A negative energy or force. In people it is a lack of understanding. A dangerous force in humans because choosing to be evil gives you a lot of power.
• A profoundly cruel, immoral or harmful act, devoid of any compassion.
• Doing bad things.
• Our perception of what we cannot conceive of being humanly acceptable. When a person or situation is so warped or hurtful that we feel it cannot come from a place of love, compassion or balance.
• Black and sticky and very scary (I don’t want evil near me)
• Dark/black force. Bad, wicked, harmful, etc.
• Impurity, wicked actions, demonic, supernatural.
• Where people have a bad intent to cause harm and/or destruction
• Evil is the things that you do to others that you know that’s not right and not to be aware.
• Evil… can differ for each person. What is ‘evil’ for me may be acceptable for another. It’s what lies outside someone’s norm and makes you feel uncomfortable.
• The unfortunate presence of something.
• low vibrations with bad and destructive intentions.
• If you move away from God and you harm others with intent.
• Absence of good.
• Its dark energy that manifests in different shapes, ways and forms and effects people’s lives negatively if they believe so. It could attack. through spiritual or physical means.
• Anything that goes against your inner grain.
• Cannot read the answer.
• This is a ‘self-willed’ force out of alignment with the ‘Will of God’ and with malevolent intent, which influences us to tend away from integrity.
• Anything (physical or spiritual) that distracts or leads one astray from their goal or path from being complete or whole.
• Despair, no compassion.
• There is a triangle compromising negativity and positivity with a third neutral point. The neutral point is where you decide what something means to you. Only you can decide when you want to name something evil in conjunction with a negative belief inside your ego. Evil is also just an illusion.

• QUESTION 83

WHY WOULD THE CREATOR CREATE HUMANS?

The following answers were provided:

• If you are love, how do you expand love? Surely the reason for all life.
• To enable the souls to evolve.
• There is an inherent life force that results in all living things growing and adapting to the circumstances. Humans are just one of them. I doubt they were “created”.
• I have no idea.
• A vessel was needed in order for us to learn our lessons in terms of our Soul Contracts; procreation makes that possible.
• When you look around, I wonder myself.
• Maybe it could be as conductors for a certain type of energy needed to raise mother earth. We could be creators to act as a specific catalyst for universal changes.
• To learn from our mistakes.
• With love.
• To give our souls the opportunity to exercise free will and make a conscious decision to be with HIM.
• To make life interesting.
• To love and to learn lessons in life.
• Someone created in his image to do his work on earth.
• Unknown to me.
• for us to have a human experience (not really sure)
• To honour/praise God.
• Jolly good question!!
• That’s a very good question.
• Why not? Everyone needs a master piece and we are His. I sometimes wonder why he tolerates our misbehaviour.
• To grow and connect.
• So that they could learn about themselves and become more conscious and aware as individuals, and learn ultimately to work together as a unit (collective consciousness).
• To enjoy and form relationship/bonds.
• To look after His creation.
• Everything exists simultaneously. All possible realities exists now and was created in one moment. Humans are just one of infinite possibilities. To ask why is to blaspheme.

• QUESTION 84

HOW WOULD YOU KNOW YOU HAVE DIED?

The following answers were received:

• See a light, family and guides.
• When the soul sheds its physical body.
• I have no idea. I suspect your spirit may know but since we seem to have little idea of previous life’s then when you transition maybe you simple move into another state with no memory of the last state, but I believe there are always ways to find out.
• I have often jokingly said I will know I’m dead when I talk to my dog and he talks back to me. I talk to my dogs, and it often looks as if they are trying hard to respond. That’s how this joke started. But seriously, I hope that I am aware enough at the time of death to know what is happening.
• No one in human form knows the answer.
• I’m sure I’ll know when I get there. You can be dead even when you are alive and not know it.
• I think I would feel free, released from this heavy, entrapment of this body. I think one would see the truth of existence and not this hard 3D reality we think is real, we would see the colour and beauty of the true energetic fields.
• I would feel peace and very light and will fly.
• I would be with those who have already passed over.
• I will meet the Creator and be in his presence for eternity.
• I would feel and think nothing.
• When I can see that I am out of my body and move to a next level.
• To wake up in another realm.
• When I don’t wake up with a pain, ha-ha.
• I would no longer be able to sense my physical body.
• If I don’t breathe anymore.
• You wouldn’t.
• I believe I would realise that I am no longer in my body.
• Went all is quiet and you experience total calmness.
• You would see it.
• I would not require sleep, not get tired, people in the physical plane would not acknowledge my presence, would have an etheric rather than a physical body, would be able to instantly create my reality with thoughts and biolocate to faraway destinations.
• Seeing and experiencing that the physical has ended.
• Death is a door how you go thought is does not matter. But do not want to be hooked up to any machines.
• To die is to awaken from the dream you just experienced. You will not ever realize that you were gone from your existence in the spirit world.

• QUESTION 85

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE TIME?

The following answers were received:

• Sequence of events.
• The space or period between two events which is measurable consistent.
• Apparently, it does not exist. We need to keep track of things. In my case it keeps me rushing.
• I’m not too sure. If I think of going back in time it is always defined by what I understand happened in that time. For instance, the earlier part of the 1900’s by the First World War. My Grandmothers life by the depression, the 1960’s by hippies and Jimi Hendrix, etc.
• In the spiritual world, there’s no such concept as time.  On the earth plane, time is the currency by which our lives are measured.  On earth, time was established after working out that it takes the earth 24 hours to rotate once, a day was broken down into the measurements we use for time, whereby a point of time is measured in hours and minutes past midnight or noon.
• They say time does not exist – but it does seem to fly.
• The time experienced on earth is a linear form of control which enables us to play out our life’s and lessons without seeing the whole picture. Universal time is almost inconceivable to us as it encompasses all, past, present and future.
• Uncontrollable and not enough of it.
• Time is the dimension in which events happen and are measured.
• Time is a concept created by humans that have a finite life – measured in seconds, minutes, hours & days.
• A moment.
• Just a frequents of a vibration.
• Time cannot be captured or held. Everything is temporary, the good times and the bad times.
• Something that moves all the time.
• A man-made linear concept broken up into sections.
• It flies by – every moment should be utilized.
• There is ONLY now. The past is in our memories and the future in our imagination.
• Time is the ever-changing state that we exist in.
• Time is relative.
• Cycles of earth’s rotation.
• Every moment is another ‘now’ moment, and time is the passage of these. Time appears to be a linear progression for us on the physical plane but is a concept that has no meaning in other realities.  
• A race (Hahaha). A chronological form that defines a beginning and end.
• Time is measured in sec, min, hr, days weeks, year and so on. But time is like water flowing through your hand once it’s gone you will never get it back.
• There is no such thing as time. You create time shifting from parallel reality to parallel reality, from moment to moment.

• QUESTION 86

NAME THE DIFFERENT WAYS (THE PURPOSE) MONEY CAN BE USED.

The following answers were received:

• Educate, feed, safety, curiosity, knowledge.
• To satisfy Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs and as a means of barter in order to enrich your life of the life’s of those around you.
• It’s just a means to an end, providing you know what it is you need otherwise it becomes an end onto itself like most things it can be used for good or bad.
• To live and support the family. To do good by helping charities etc. To do bad by funding wars, etc. To control people. It can be used to have fun, to make your life easier. It can be used in a way that destroys you – by funding a drug addiction, etc.
• In exchange for goods and services; as a measuring rod of value and as a store of value.
• Can a be a measure of a successful life – to give you freedom and to support others.
• Money can be used for security (food, warmth and comfort). It can be used to uplift, to elevate via study or books. It can also be used to control, entrap and hurt others by denying it. It can also be used by some to elevate their perceived status, their believe that money makes them somehow better or special than others.
• A necessity to survive. It can also bring joy.
• Money can be used or abused. Used to better one’s life and oneself. Abuse by destroying others to make more money or used as a power tool.
• To improve the life’s of ourselves and others or to exert power on those less fortunate.
• Reward, lifestyle, to help and spoil others.
• To help you buy valuable life living things to survive but it can also make your life very miserable if you don’t have it.
• It’s the medium used to navigate the world we live in. Money can be utilized positively or negatively. It can lift someone up, but it can also mean their downfall.
• To buy stuff – to motivate others.
• as energy exchange, to obtain necessities, to help others, to change physical space.
• For the basic needs or for a more luxurious life style, or for gambling of for helping your neighbour who is less fortunate.
• Providing for family and then loved ones. Providing for yourself and future, then helping improve the lot of others (dogs, mostly) as much as is possible.
• Currency, value, reimbursement, prize, punishment.
• Money is convenient – make things easy, Trade method – money for your time and time is precious, Security – depending on your needs.
• Energy exchange.
• It is an energy exchange, so it can be used to support your life, purchase commodities you need and desire including education and lifestyle, can be used to help others in need (e.g. pay salaries, donations).
• To buy, manipulate, to bargain, reward, a material object that is used to quantify or give value to objects in order to rank their value or need in a material world.
• To secure shelter, food, clothing, education means to access transport, entertainment.
• Money is just a form of abundance you attract as you need it.

• QUESTION 87

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE “GOD’S WILL”?

The following answers were received:

• Laws of creation in action.
• Accepting and acknowledging that the higher power surrounding you has a divine plan and accept that plan.
• I don’t believe there is a God’s will.
• I believe that being born into this world you have certain laws that affect you. I think we are given free will to learn, grow and make our own choices. I don’t think God expects anything from us. It is our choice in which way we will develop and how slow or fast we develop. But we have to live with the consequences of our choices. Often when someone died you are supposedly comforted with “It was Gods will”. I don’t agree. I think death is still part of a decision made within us, usually on a subconscious level.
• Human beings are given freedom of choice, and we live our lives around that, but ultimately God has the final say and if He decides to intervene for whatever reason, the outcome will differ from the one you had in mind.
• To give – give me what I want for myself.
• Being in alignment with universal consciousness.
• God wants us to be the best we can, to be good, to learn from our mistakes.
• It is something intended to happen to teach us or make us stronger. Something we may not have any power over.
• Some things in life are beyond our control such as how we catch or recover from disease, when we live and die. Those are the things that can only be controlled by God – and when those things happen, it is in accordance with God’s will.
• What must be – Will be?
• To try to do as the bible tell you to live your life and how to treat other people.
• God’s will is what is planned for my life and my loved ones around me.
• have no understanding I just accept.
• A Christian term used to explain events, those who believe in an external god will be accepting of events that occur.
• I believe God is in total care of the universe and the world and me.
• Chance.
• Accept things when they happen because it is supposed to happen like that. It’s meant to be.
• What God wants for us in the bigger picture and His helping hand in choices we made.
• Coincidence in life
• This is the playing out of the perfect Divine Plan.
• Events in life that we do not have control over that leads to or results in the greater good.
• Faith that there is a greater plan then man’s.
• There is no need for God’s will because you have free choice. The Universe supports you unconditionally therefore cancelling the need for God to excerpt any type of will.

• QUESTION 88

WHAT ARE ANGELS?

The following answers were received:

• Light beings, another educating path not in physical manifestation.
• Supporting souls.
• Guardian or guiding spirits.
• Divine beings that now and again intervene in our life.
• Angels are God’s messengers.
• Helpers.
• Etheric beings or aliens that came to earth in the past and were thought to be angels by humans who could not understand who they were.
• Angels are God’s right hand.
• God’s assistants, super natural beings or spirits who take care of us.
• Good spirits or guides that exists in a spiritual sense and may intervene in our life’s if we seek their guidance.
• Good spirits that speak to your soul.
• Unnatural beings.
• Angels are beings, in one form or another, but also as people who come across your path… Or are always there?
• God’s messengers/ helpers
• guides or positive/higher vibrational beings/energies. They could even be different versions of yourself.
• Guardians.
• Imaginary friends?
• Positive energy that can influence people’s lives positively.
• Angels are God’s servants assisting us in this life – they have many forms.
• Divine beings.
• These beings are part of the Divine Hierarchy, not in human form, surrounded by a positive energy field which some depict as wings.
• Army of Heaven with super natural powers each one individual and unique, but acting as a union to serve, protect and act out.
• God’s army, in spiritual war and in worship.
• Just another type of being in the universe with a different function.

• QUESTION 89

DO YOU THINK THEY EXIST?

88% of participants indicated that they believe angels exist.

8% of participants believe angels do NOT exist.

4% of participants indicated that they are unsure.

• QUESTION 90

IF THEY DO WHAT IS THEIR PURPOSE?

The following answers were received:

• Angels channel divine light and will.
• They guide and protect.
• If you can tap into them, then for their guidance and wisdom
• Going back to what I was taught at Convent School. To protect us, to help us, to guide us. But I am not drawn to that idea.
• They provide protection, guidance and comfort to human beings and communicate messages to us by way of the clairs, intuition, birds, feathers, orbs of light, coins, clouds, dreams, scent, butterflies, dragonflies and through the actions of earth angels.
• Helpers when you need them.
• To raise consciousness. To give humanity teachings, messages or help.
• To help us when we ask for help, to protect us and to give us what we “must” have and not what we always want.
• To guide, protect and take care of us.
• To protect us and guide us according to God’s will if we want them to.
• Help guidance and protection.
• To guide and protect us.
• To protect, but also to provide guidance.
• To execute God’s will.
• to help others.
• Protection.
• Concept crutch to help us cope.
• To protect people…
• Yes, protection in various circumstances.
• guide and protect.
• They are part of the divine hierarchy to assist humanity. They can help if requested to do so, but do not interfere.
• To glorify and worship God. To protect us.
• Worship of God and spiritual war against evil to protect God’s children.
• They help humanity.

• QUESTION 91

HAVE YOU EVER BENEFITED FROM THEIR ACTIONS? (EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER)

The following answers were received:

29% of participants indicated that they have NOT benefited from the actions of angels.

• Yes, daily protection and guidance.
• I’m not sure.
• No. And yet, I do feel like I have had divine help in my life, I just do not know the source.
• Yes. In recent times, I’ve often walked into my bedroom and smelt Ivor.  On two occasions in the past year, I’ve seen an orb darting up and down and around the lounge where Ivor used to sit (I have it on video).  I call on Archangel Michael for protection every day. My neighbour told me she saw Warlock outside my window on the first night of the protest action; since then, she seems a massive dog on guard outside my window, every night.
• I believe that they protect me and my family as I ask them to do on a daily basis.
• Yes, I often ask for guidance and the signs are clear. This may not always be the case, but I have spent some time meditating and ask for guidance. I have also had the feeling of being protected. In a situation whereby I answer and realise I don’t realise where the answer come from.
• Yes. Stopped me to make a life changing decision that would have impacted my children very negatively in the long run.
• Yes, was protected not to be injured or die in a car accident.
• I’ve been in situations where I later realized that I was saved by a guardian angel. I also pay attention to signs that appear when I need guidance. In July, I was in a car accident. Beforehand, I had a strong feeling that I shouldn’t take that route and shouldn’t go where I was headed. I didn’t heed the warning, and the accident happened.
• Probably, the kindness and generosity of other people.
• I’m sure I was lucky a couple of times, but I don’t know if it was angels or just positive attraction or karma at work.
• Yes, protection in various circumstances.
• Yes. I feel I have been divinely protected when I have called upon Archangel Michael for protection, I have been helped in healing sessions when I have called upon Archangel Raphael. I think they orchestrate things in the background to have a particular outcome, and there is much more that they have done for me which I may not realise.
• Yes, Protection in multiple occasion in my life so far.

• QUESTION 92

IF YOU WERE PROVIDED WITH THE OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE LUNCH WITH AN IMPORTANT INDIVIDUAL (STILL ALIVE), WHO WOULD IT BE?

The following answers were provided:

• The following names were mentioned more than once:

• Dalai Lama      – 7 Times.
• Imtiaz Sooliman – Twice.
• Nobody – 5 Times
• The following individuals were only mentioned once:

Elon Musk, Deepak Chopra, David Icke, Richard Branson, Barack Obama, Dave Pepler, Clint Eastwood, Paulo Coelho, Sonia Choquette, Diana Cooper, Neale Donald Walsch, John Eldridge, Jordan Peterson, Jeff Bezos.

• QUESTION 93

IF YOU WERE PROVIDED WITH THE OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE LUNCH WITH AN IMPORTANT INDIVIDUAL (FROM THE PAST), WHO WOULD IT BE?

The following answers were provided:

• Jesus and Mother Teresa are mentioned more frequently.
• Jesus, St Francis of Assisi.
• Mother Theresa.
• A Taoist Sage.
• Hitler. Also to feel his energy and possibly understand what motivated him. (Just to clarify – I am not a fan of Hitler in any way, but I would do it just to try to see if I could feel what he was feeling.)
• Buddha (Siddhartha Gautama) or Rumi.
• I don’t know.
• My grandmother.
• Einstein.
• Mother Teresa.
• Coco Chanel / Steve Jobs – for their vision, courage and perseverance to change the world.
• Osho.
• Dr Anton Rupert.
• Jesus.
• no one comes to mind.
• Eugene Marais.
• Mozart.
• Lady Diana.
• Leonardo Da Vinci.
• Jesus, Buddha, Mother Theresa.
• Mother Theresa.
• King David. King Solomon.
• Leonardo de Vinci or Carl Jung.
• No one.

• QUESTION 94

WHAT WAS YOUR SADDEST EXPERIENCE?

The following answers were received:

• Euthanizing my cats and dogs.
• When my mother died.
• Losing my pets, my parrot and bull mastiff.
• Seeing my husband in his coffin.
• When my relationship with my first love, ended; I was 20.
• When my husband passed away.
• Being born.
• Currently my marriage is falling apart.
• When I lost my parents and nephew.
• Last year – my father passed away in June, and then my mother was alone for three months before she passed away as well. It was so sad to see her wither away. Her will to live was just gone. She was a shadow of herself and had no reason to fight her cancer any longer.
• Disappointment, due to a break of trust, more so because I did not “see” it coming.
• When my mother passed away.
• When my grandmother passed away.
• When my horse died.
• Martin’s illness when I was a child and the rejection of friends as a result of him being sick.
• When my son died.
• Loss of my shadow – a special dog.
• Losing my mom….
• The passing of my dad in Corona time – due to travel ban I was not able to go to SA for the funeral or to be with my mom.
• Losing a friend @ 42.
• The loss of my mother-in-law (to old age) and sister-in law (cancer) within two days. They were both very special in my life.
• Death of husband.
• When my husband died.

• QUESTION 95

IF YOU WERE TO BE GRANTED ONE NON-HUMAN ABILITY, WHAT WOULD YOU PREFER TO RECEIVE?

The following answers were received:

• Abilities mentioned more than once include:

• To fly – 7 Times.
• Healing – 3 Times.
• Abilities mentioned only once:
• Be able to give peace to animals and humans / heal their emotions.
• Clairvoyance.
• To see the future.
• To be able to stop bad things before they happen.
• To teleport.
• Time travel / connect directly to source.
• Being invisible.
• To create a circle of calmness.
• Non-verbal communication.
• Supernatural wisdom.
• See in the dark.
• Move through the fabric of third-dimensional density consciously.
• 20/5 vision.

• QUESTION 96

WHAT IS THE PERSONALITY TRAIT THAT YOU ADMIRE MOST IN OTHERS?

The following answers were received:

• Dedication.
• Honesty.
• People who are simply themselves.
• Kindness. Integrity. Loyalty.
• Humility.
• Honesty & compassion.
• Wisdom.
• Good standards and norms, good communication, respect, common sense and someone with a good sense of humour.
• They must be trustworthy.
• Resilience.
• Sincerity, specifically honesty.
• Kindness.
• The gift of hospitality.
• Clever /smart people.
• Authenticity and living their passion.
• Comfortable social interaction.
• Honesty.
• Self confidence
• Patience and living in the now.
• Kindness .
• An ability to connect to and relate to others easily.
• Loyalty.
• Straight forward talking.
• I do not admire people.

• QUESTION 97

UNDER WHICH CIRCUMSTANCES WOULD YOU CONSIDER ENDING THE LIFE OF ANOTHER INDIVIDUAL?

The following answers were received:

• Extreme suffering by their request, self-defence, to avoid cruelty to animals.
• When they are suffering beyond hope of ever being able to return to normal life and secondly when they are cruel to animals.
• Where they have no moral conscience and are a threat to others
• If my family or myself were being attacked or placed in danger.
• Where heinous criminal acts have been committed.
• Unless it is their request while healthy and there is actually no hope or medical assistance, I would consider it.
• In self-defence, in defence of another innocent person because if a criminal chooses to kill, or hurt or take away the choices, innocence or life of another, that person has agreed to be put in the position of having their own choice to life taken away. The other instance would be if another human being was suffering in agony and asked for an end to their suffering. Out of love, I’ll have to honour their choice as I believe its theirs to make.
• I don’t think I will be able to do it in any circumstances. Maybe if my kids are in a really bad danger where their lives are threatened.
• Never.
• Never.
• When someone is in the process of physically trying to kill me or my children.
• Sexual abuse, Rape.
• If there is no quality of life left.
• When its suffering to the point of death.
• To end torture of others.
• This is a difficult answer, must go into detail.
• True and proven necessary euthanasia.
• Abusing children and animals.
• Safety of myself and loved ones, to end severe suffering.
• No brain function.
• I’m not sure I would be able to do this – have never been put in this position. It would be done under extreme duress; if there is absolutely no chance that they will survive and there are no painkillers, to hasten death where life has become unbearable e.g. in a remote location if they are trapped/bleeding to death/in unbearable pain, and if they requested it.
• When they have taken a life of another, especially someone close to me.
• Mercy death.
• If I let a hidden negative fear-based belief that I’m conscious od take over.

• QUESTION 98

DO YOU HAVE ANY OBJECTIONS TO CLONING? (EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER)

50% of participants have expressed objections to cloning.

The following answers were received:

• No – simply expanse understanding, however one would like to see creation left to nature.
• Ambivalent.
• Yes, I don’t think we have the experience and knowledge to foresee the ramifications.
• No. It is something I would not do. E.g. My child dies, and I clone him. I think that although physically he would be the same, the spirit is not. Another individual in his own right. So, it would defeat my purpose. I think it will happen more and more in the future. I am not sure how it would impact on me.
• I’m opposed to it from an ethical standpoint and think that it will be susceptible to abuse.
• Could be good or bad – depending on the purpose of the cloning – e.g. growing new organs, but if it’s for the bad?
• Yes, we warp God’s consciousness by cloning.
• Yes, we are individuals and must stay that way and we only are supposed to live up to a certain point.
• Yes, we cannot do God’s work, it’s not natural.
• Yes. I believe every living thing is uniquely crated and cloning would destroy our purpose.
• No.  If emotional, mental and physical suffering can be done away with – why not?
• No. If it is possible why not.
• I’m not against it, but I don’t understand why someone would want to clone someone. We are all unique, and it would be wrong to try to immortalize it in another person.
• No.
• Only if it can be used for good.
• Yes, every person is unique.
• Cautious – it can, like everything else end up being abused. Also, why is it necessary?
• Not for animals if it is for food purposes, but I am against it for people. We already have too many unwanted babies in the world. Cloning of people would be for selfish reasons.
• Yes – when you are creating human beings don’t mess with the beauty of creation and God’s plan.
• Yes, we are individualistic.
• Yes, living things created by God have a stamp of the Divine, which cannot be duplicated by man with all attributes intact. We do not know what the long-term results of this will be on the balance of ecosystems.
• Yes, only one Maker.
• Yes, human are not as smart as we think and there is too many unknows.
• No objection. It is only making the body. Th soul that will inhabit the clone will still be someone else.

• QUESTION 99

WHAT DO YOU CURRENTLY SEE AS THE BIGGEST THREAT TO YOU HAPPINESS?

The following answers were provided:

• Answers that were provided more frequently:
• Nothing – 4 Times.
• Myself – 4 Times.
• The following were also mentioned:
• Fear.
• Politics and the human condition of wokeness.
• Feeling unsafe in this world due to the mindset of human beings. We live in a world where one can be controlled or killed by the powers that be. All of our rights to freedom of any sort is denied. I feel we are at the mercy of governments, police, military, lawyers, and pharmaceutical companies.
• Loosing anyone else close to me. Being caught up in other people’s issue and dramas without being able to maintain my own inner calm and happiness.
• Emotions controlling me. Not in the right relationship.
• When my health is not good.
• My health.
• My perception of my life.
• Loneliness.
• Not being able to be with the woman I love.
• Death, serious illness or incapacity of my loved ones.
• People interfering in the flow of my life without being part of it – mostly it is people who do not agree with how I do life.
• Unconscious self-sabotage.
• Disability.
• Loss of control.
• When I give over to a fear-based belief.

• QUESTION 100

DEFINE MAGIC

The following answers were received:

• Where one does not yet understand the laws of creation.
• Perceptively impossible becoming real.
• Either an illusion that you can’t figure out or creating a situation that feels out of this world.
• Something that happens that is completely out of your sphere of understanding or experience.
• The way in which one chooses to engage with life and the world.  The more self-aware one is, the more magical life will be!
• Living life as you wish is magic.
• A world that exists outside the confines of this world where the energetic limitations don’t exist.
• Dynamo (uses supernatural effects to play tricks on your mind)
• The art of performing supernatural acts.
• A trick of the mind.
• Unexplained or unexpected moments that cause joy.
• The power and abilities to do things that not everybody can do.
• It’s a moment or event that you just know is unique in its kind and cannot be described, but you just know… it’s magic!
• When unexpected things happen.
• Something unexplainable bringing a good outcome.
• To be lost in beautiful music. To be with your loved one.
• An experience that transcends our basic 5 senses.
• Magic is trick of the mind and the eye; it is not real.
• Something the heart and mind can’t understand unless informed, but is very real.
• Flow from the universe.
• A phenomenon that current understanding/science has no rational explanation for, as yet.
• Supernatural = true magic. Manipulation of the eye = magic
• Wonder, magic is the ability to see things around you that you don’t understand in wonder.
• There is no such thing as magic. Things that you do not understand or know anything about my seem so to you.

• QUESTION 101

IF YOU WERE GIVEN THE CHOICE TO WORK WITH CHILDREN OR INDIVIDUALS OLDER THAN 70 WHAT WOULD YOUR CHOICE BE?

• 54% of participants indicated children.
• 29% of participants indicated older individuals.
• 13% of participants indicated both.
• 4% of participants indicated neither.

• QUESTION 102

DEFINE A PRAYER?

The following answers were received:

• Talking to God and creation.
• An interaction between myself and God.
• An affirmation. Putting your intent out there.
• Communicating with a higher power.
• Communication with God.
• Meditating or talking to yourself via universal energy
• Speaking to God consciousness.
• To say thank you.
• Talking to God/angels.
• A communication to God, an expression of gratitude for what we have, request for guidance and strength in tough times.
• Verbalisation of thoughts – guilt, thanks, asking.
• To ask for things in your life and to say thanks for that what you received.
• Talking to God or your spiritual leader all the time.  Can also be just a way of daily living with your creator.
• Conversation with GOD.
• Communicating with a true spirit which may be your own self or source.
• To be quiet in the presence of the Lord.
• Affirmations.
• It is a one-sided conversation to a higher entity that someone believe in that would help the person in some way or form. A Prayer could also be a thanksgiving to the higher entity.
• Any form of conversation with God anytime anywhere.
• Connecting to God.
• Thought itself can be prayer, and thought is powerful. If we are One with the Mind of God, then our thoughts are the prayers that create new worlds. Conscious prayer is focused inner dialogue with the Divine, inviting the Divine to enter your heart space.
• Conversation with God.
• A conversation with your Greater.
• Telling God what you want him to do for you.

• QUESTION 103

DO YOU PRAY – EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER – WHY DO YOU OR DON’T YOU?

83% participants indicated that they do pray.

Participants provided the following answers:

• Yes, I need to connect with “home”.
• Yes, to give thanks or ask for what I think will make the world a better place or to ask for healing for the world.
• I don’t, although I think it serves a purpose for a lot of people. I tend to look at the psychology behind the process.
• Sometimes. Usually when things are going wrong and I really need help. A throw back to my Christian upbringing. I usually don’t pray. I do a Gratitude Time as I drive to work each day. Also set my intention for the day. I feel the powers higher than me know my heart and intentions much better than I do and praying is unnecessary.
• I do.  I’m in communication with God throughout the day.  I give thanks for my gifts and blessings, including all the significant people who’ve crossed my path, past, present & future and the role they’ve played/are playing/will play in the lessons I’m here to learn; I ask for guidance, protection and wisdom, sometimes I just chat, as I would with a friend.  Prayer brings me comfort, and I enjoy the oneness and connectedness I feel.
• Always – gratitude, help with decisions.
• Yes. I believe that assistance in the form of answers, and guidance will be given to me that is for my highest good and that put me in alignment with my higher purpose.
• I pray for safety and security and protection and gratitude when it happens.
• Yes, I believe that it is important to pray and express/ask for, assistance or merely share with God or the angels.
• Yes. I believe we should express our gratitude to God for the good things we experience, and when things are difficult, I believe that praying to God and trusting that He is in control, helps me to feel less burdened.
• No.  I believe you make your own life.
• Yes. Because it make me feels safe and comfortable.
• Yes, but i don’t pray formally in a prayerful position. Also, not at specific times of the day. Throughout the day, it’s almost like a conversation with God. I also don’t always ask for something, say thank you, express anger, ask for guidance.
• Yes, I enjoy interacting with GOD.
• Not really but I do try to connect to self.
• Yes, I pray I cannot imagine my life without the presence of God. When I pray, I talk to God and wait on Him.
• I do affirmations but not directed at some other being.
• I don’t pray often as I am not religious anymore, and don’t believe that I have to pray for salvation, but sometimes I do feel the need to express my fear, thought or thanksgiving to the universe in the form of prayer.
• Yes, you need to chat to your best friend and Creator to maintain a strong bond.
• Yes, I do. Focused prayer help keep us in touch with the Divine, to express gratitude and our desires.
• Yes, to strengthen my relationship with God.
• Yes, I pray. Conversation with God.
• I declare and visualize what I want and leave it at that. You cannot have what you are not the vibration of.

• QUESTION 104

ARE OUR LIVES PREDETERMINED? (EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER)

83% of participants believe that our lives are predetermined in some way.

The following answers were provided:

• Partly – how we walk the pre-determined path is in our own power through choice.
• I do believe it is so as I believe in reincarnation and learning and growth of the soul and learning lessons. I believe I enter a body I have a pre-determined agreement of what I shall attempt to do and learn in this lifetime.
• No. Things happen randomly, and we strive to give it meaning and then claim it was meant to happen. Our intent plays a big part.
• To an extent. I think we choose and have an agreement with our parents, life partners, children before we are even born. We are born into situations that offer us the best chance to learn lessons and grow. In this life you can choose to learn those lessons or not. So, there is free will as well.
• To an extent, whereby we have a predetermined entry and exit point (as per our Soul Contracts), and that whole thing about nothing happening by accident and how there are lessons to be learned in those experiences.  But then, there’s also free will and what we do with the blank canvas that we’ve been given is up to us, unless it’s God’s Will to intervene.  (I know what I’m trying to say here, but I don’t know if you will!).
• I sort of think so, but I think one’s outlook on life may have a lot to do with your destiny.
• Yes. We each have defining characteristics or and energetic make-up defined by our codes – life path, astrological sign, handprint, past live experiences, to name a few that predetermine our current experiences, capabilities and lessons we choose to work with.
• Yes, we prepare our own contract on what we are supposed to do on this earth.
• Yes, to some extent. You are placed on earth to fulfil a duty however, this may alter depending on the choices you make during your life, but the end results will be the same.
• Yes and no. I believe we make our own choices in live and although things happen to us, we determine how we deal with them and move to a better state. I do believe though that God decides when and how we leave this world.
• No, there are free will decisions that can change your life.
• Yes. We have a contract with Universe / Devine.
• I think so. Perhaps not always how we want it or think it should be, but i realize my life is destined as it should be.
• I just except life.
• I think all things/events that happen can be used to help us along our path. Life is happening for you, rather than to you.
• Difficult question. Is there really such a thing as free will – or has even that been determined even if just by mental development in the womb? Is what we think of as free will not in itself predetermined? I don’t know. But I doubt it. I think there is at least a certain amount of free will.
• ) No, I don’t believe it is. Our lives are the result of circumstances, choices and peoples actions.
• Yes, I think the outcomes are but the roads we choose to get there are our own.
• Partly.
• I like the following analogy: I believe that the ‘canvas’ of our lives is predetermined, but the ‘finer details’ e.g. the colours, the textures are up to us.
• No everyone has a free will that cannot be predicted by humans.
• Yes, God knows are path, but we do have free will.
• In the life between lives we make contacts with other souls as to the themes that we want to explore together or separately.

• QUESTION 105

WHAT IN YOUR OPINION IS THE GREATEST WORK OF ART?

• The following were mentioned more than once:
• Nature (including related responses like “Mountains, trees (nature), Mother nature”) – 4 Times.
• The Universe – 3 Times.
• Creation – Twice.
• Michael Angelo – Twice.
• The following answers were also received:
• Life. Because we’re having this human experience, probably the gift of being given life.  Witnessing its development from embryo and seeing it through to old age is pretty phenomenal. Being given the opportunity to live it first hand is a pretty remarkable gift.
• The human brain
• A rainbow
• Michael Angelo’s paintings, especially the chapel ceilings.
• Starry Night by Van Gogh.
• Flowers, Mountains, Trees, Water, Animals and Forests.
• The David sculpture… to create something from marble and only remove marble that doesn’t belong to the sculpture, is art.
• Koln church building.
• Mother nature.
• Pieta of Michael Angelo.
• I assume meaning art for art sake, like fine art?……certain music.
• Butterflies and Orchids, Imagination of fantasy writers and the creators of those movies.
• Mona Lisa.
• I don’t know much about art, but was in absolute awe of the Sistine Chapel when I was fortunate enough to visit in 2014.

• QUESTION 106

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE SIN?

The following answers were received:

• Any action/thought that hurts or is not worthy of love.
• An act or deed that goes contrary to the beliefs and norms of main stream religion.
• A religious construct to keep people in line. For me it’s doing something to others you wouldn’t want done to yourself.
• Consciously deciding to do something wrong when you have the knowledge and understanding to do the right thing.
• Any transgression that goes against the law of God.
• Something against your own values.
• In the religious sense of the word, I think it was a word intended to create fear and control of the masses. We are learning as we live and making mistakes or perceived failures or wrong doing are not sin, simply experiences.
• Something you know is wrong.
• Doing something bad/unacceptable to humankind.
• Sin is something evil, something that we have done wrong. I generally base my concept of right and wrong on the Bible and the set of values and principles I was raised with.
• Evil intentions and/or not standing by your values.
• When you do things that you know it’s not good for you.
• Sin differs for people. What is sin for one person may not be for another. Sin is something outside your belief system.
• The action not in line with your inner compass.
• a Christian term used to segregate. A Christian judgement perceiving that a behaviour is ‘bad’.
• To live outside the framework of God’s Word.
• It appears to be defined as “breaking the rules” BUT whose rules?? Who makes the rules that are punishable by death if broken??  The concept of sin is a manmade construct – usually by organised religion to keep control, of the minds of the people. Like the hell you go to if you sin?
• Man’s dark desires result in choices and actions that has a negative effect on other people’s lives which are defined as sin.
• Anything that harms other people.
• Punishment.
• Error, deviation from morality or the law.
• An act thought or verbal action that is not in keeping with the will of God.
• Absence of Love in your actions.
• To miss the point. But again, it is your own choice to define something as a sin as life has no meaning but the meaning you give it.

• QUESTION 107

CONSIDERING ALL SYMBOLS KNOWN TO YOU, WHAT SYMBOL WOULD YOU REGARD AS THE MOST SIGNIFICANT? (EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER)

The following answers were provided:

• Circle, I’m one with the One unto eternity.
• Yin/Yang as it represents balance in all things.
• The yin-yang symbol. Kinda summarises everything.
• The Om sign. But, not for its real meaning. My husband and I bought Om rings at the Durban market while on holiday before we got married. A few months later we decided to marry in court, on the spur of the moment. The only rings we had were our Om rings. They became our wedding rings, and we wore them for almost 39 years. To me the Om sign symbolises love and marriage.
• The All-Seeing-Eye.  It’s a reminder to us that all our actions and deeds are observed by a higher power.
• Thumbs up.
• The symbol of the heart it is known throughout the world and is always with a positive connection.
• Reiki symbols as it heals.
• The cross. This is a symbol of Christianity and the believe in internal life hereafter.
• The Sun – for me it symbolises life. Without the sun we cannot exist and thrive. There is no warmth and no light.
• Water – bring calm.
• 69. Symbol for the Cancer.
• Heart… It is, for me, the symbol of the physical, but also the spiritual
• just have always loved stars.
• Not really attached to any. Perhaps a tree with roots.
• The Cross. This is universal.
• Music symbols like treble cleff sign. Lots of pleasant memories and also dreams.
• The cross, it’s the most widely known symbol with the strongest connotation to it of Christ and Christianity.
• Spiral – it’s everywhere in nature and contributes to healing.
• Numbers.
• The six-pointed star, Star or Shield of David/Magen David, also called the Seal of Solomon (Solomon was the son of David) – this is one of the Names of God (Psalm 18: 31, 36). It is a symbol of Divine protection. It is a geometrical pattern, part of the sacred geometry of life coming from the hand of God. It represents the unity of the individual with the Divine. I was ‘tickled pink’ to see in the short chirology report that you sent that the Ring of Solomon (which I then googled) is represented on my hands.
• Lion – Representing authority, power, respect and loyalty.
• + sign you can always add to anything. Add Love, add time, add money.
• None.

• QUESTION 108

SHOULD INDIVIDUALS CONVICTED OF RAPING CHILDREN RECEIVE THE DEATH PENALTY?

Participants indicated –

• Yes – 54%
• No – 29%
• 17% provided no definite yes or no answer.

The following answers were provided:

• No, they do not necessarily learn more after death if they stay earthbound.
• No life sentence in solitary confinement.
• Where rehabilitation is not considered possible, the death penalty is meted out – it’s a way of protecting society from aberrants who refuse to play by the rules.
• Not sure – a live for a live?
• No, I think if they get death penalty, they just come back and do the same thing again and that we don’t want. They need to learn their lesson here on earth.
• No, they should suffer.
• Perhaps.
• I think so. Not on moral grounds etc. but we simply need to aggressively eliminate that scourge (and blood line / epigenetics etc) from society.
• No, they should go to jail where they can be raped as well.
• Yes, it’s destroying a young life. Picking on someone smaller and weaker is just wrong.
• No, but castration is an option.
• It is nothing that I’m the vibration of, so it does not exist in my reality. Only people that vibrate at that frequency experience such things. What you put out is what you get back.

• QUESTION 109

SHOULD EUTHANASIA BE AVAILABLE TO THOSE WHO ARE TERMINALLY ILL AND SUFFER UNBEARABLE PAIN?

92% of participants indicated that euthanasia should be available to those who are terminally ill and suffer unbearable pain.

The following answers were also received:

• Yes, should they choose. All choices offer learning.
• Yes. It is actually contrary to my own personal belief. I think if you commit suicide you have to relive those exact circumstances in another life. But I nursed my husband until he died of Asbestosis, a painful end to his life. He did not consider suicide, but I could understand how others would.
• I’m not opposed to it, but it must be that individual’s own decision, otherwise it’s open to abuse.
• Only by your own choice (They can put it in a will before they get to the stage where they can’t make the decision). And with animals, I believe you know when your animal is suffering, you will see in their eyes that they want you to euthanize them, when the suffering is too big to handle for them.
• Yes, if requested by them. This is very personal and should be left to the individual.
• No.
• Yes. If that is their wish.
• Yes, if that’s what they desire.
• Yes, when all options have been tried to make someone comfortable.
• You only suffer unbearable pain when you are out of alignment with your true core vibration. They must be able to decide for themselves if they want to be euthanized. It is their own responsibility.

• QUESTION 111

DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR PASSION IS – IF YES PLEASE STATE?

46% of participants indicated that they do NOT know what their passions are.

The following answers were received:

• Healing.
• Serving my community and environment and ending all cruelty to animals.
• Working with trees and nature.
• I ‘m still searching.  I’ve come close to thinking I’ve found it, but it eludes me.
• At this age just to be happy and healthy – and doing what I want to do.
• I would like to help all animals in distress but need lots of money to pursue it.
• Helping people to grow and achieve. feeling a sense of fulfilment.
• To feel very good when you do something’s that you enjoy doing and to feel absolutely satisfied and good about it.
• To work with people.
• Horses and everything about them.
• Not exactly, I know I am here to hold space and shine my light – still figuring it out.
• I want to help…
• I get excited learning and sharing stuff I know and is keen to learn from others.
• Still discovering.
• Not really, I think it may lie in healthcare.
• Sports and adventure. Makes me feel meaningful.
• To teach.

• QUESTION 112

HAVE YOU HAD A NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE?

Participants indicated as follows:

Yes – 21%

No – 79%

• QUESTION 113

WHEN YOU FEEL DEPRESSED WHAT DO YOU USUALLY DO? (FOR EXAMPLE, EAT, CRY, SLEEP)

• The following actions were mentioned more than once:
• Eat – 7 Times.
• Sleep – 7 Times.
• Cry – 4 Times.
• Listen to music – 3 Times.
• Withdraw – 3 Times.
• The following answers were also provided:
• Meditate.
• Nothing / let it wash over me.
• Lie on my bed, read, write a plan.
• Sleep, drink a glass of wine or two.
• Ride my horse.
• Walk and talk to a friend.
• Sleep, affirm gratitude.
• Try to get out into nature and talk to God.
• I don’t experience depression.

• QUESTION 114

 HOW DO YOU USUALLY EXPRESS EXTREME ANGER?

54% of participants indicated that they verbalize their anger in some way.

The following answers were provided:

• Quiet.
• I vocalise it on the spot or to someone neutral.
• I speak hard and forcefully. Never violent.
• Something that happens rarely. I try to talk to the person with whom I have a problem. I become very calm, but determined to sort this out.
• I curse.
• Depending why then I say my say then walk away.
• By tirade of negative speech.
• Scream and swear.
• Normally raise my voice or cry.
• Shout, cry, clench my jaw, have to hold back from physically hitting.
• Go very quiet initially, have a throbbing vein in my neck and then explode.
• Shout, raise my voice, and swear.
• Stay quiet, turn around, and walk away.
• I scream.
• I have club thumb; it’s not an emotion I am familiar with. Shout perhaps.
• Depending on the situation. In a professional situation talking softer and softer.
• Shout.
• Breathe, swear to myself and vent to somebody else.
• Depends on the person and situation but usually I talk slow and soft and possible cry.
• Box, throw eggs.
• Some teachings I study aim for letting go of our charges, and acceptance of what is, and so I practice this. I generally don’t show my emotions; may discuss it. I ponder on what the trigger is, what lies behind it with the aim of dissolving this. 
• Physically through performing some kind of activity in the form of sport.
• Crying.
• I shout.

• QUESTION 115

HOW DO YOU USUALLY EXPRESS EXTREME JOY?

• The following were mentioned more than once:
• Laughter – 6 Times.
• Dance / jumping / clapping / physical excitement – 4 Times.
• Cry –      3 Times.
• Share it / telling others – Twice.
• Singing – Twice.
• Express gratitude / thank the universe – Twice.
• The following were also mentioned:
• Get excitable and full of ideas and energy.
• People around me just know.
• Laughter and affection.
• Smile; say nice things, jokes and laughs.
• I talk.
• In a reserved way, not too expressive.

• QUESTION 116

HOW DO YOU MANAGE CONFLICT IN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS?

The following answers were received:

• Withdraw.
• Try to open channels of communication.
• Patience and understanding until you have to draw a line.
• Cry, withdraw and then later come up with a plan and try to talk it out.
• When I was less self-assured, I tended to back down, but now, I confront conflict in a loving, non-aggressive way.
• Say my say, explain my feelings, expect the same from the other one and then let it go.
• I usually go quiet and suppress my rage, drink alcohol or in extreme situations argue back.
• I try to talk about it.
• With difficulty. I prefer to shy away from it.
• I tend to avoid conflict and deal with it too late. It makes me feel awkward and question/doubt myself and the validity of my feelings, so I analyse my feelings for a long time before raising an issue.
• In intimate personal relationships, I mostly avoid it or try to solve it on my own. In intimate business relationships I am very forward and solve it constructively.
• I make my point clear and try to come to a solution.
• Try to avoid conflict. Would rather stay quiet.
• Communication.
• with difficulty. Often avoid it or supress it. But if I realise that the relationship is important, I try to understand the other person’s view and sometime apologise if I feel its appreciate.
• Not so good with that.
• I usually want to talk it out – even if heated and unpleasant, listening and speaking, but with the goal of finding the common ground.
• I try to avoid conflict rather than to talk about the issue. It usually sorts itself out and was not such an important issue as I thought it was at the time.
• Depending on the situation, I try to have a logic discussion or write a letter.
• None currently.
• With discussion.
• Avoid.
• Communication.
• I say in my mind I’m sorry I put you in my reality like this. Please forgive me. Thank you for the lesson, I love you.

• QUESTION 117

IN WHAT AREA OF YOUR LIFE DO YOU EXPERIENCE MOST OF YOUR STRESS?

• The following were mentioned more than once:
• Work / job-related – 8 Times.
• Financial – 4 Times.
• Relationships – 3 Times.

The following answers wer.e received:

• Physical safety
• Currently it’s because of my impaired cognitive ability and the fear I’m not coping.
• New Microsoft Office!!
• Fear from lack of control, lack of trust.
• Pressure to finish my studies.
• Home life.
• In the unknown. Going to a New Doctor or meeting new people.
• Lack of achieving ambitions and goals.
• Work stress. I have quite a stressful job, so that is where I mostly experience feelings of stress and frustration as I am constantly faced with problems that need to be managed and destressed.
• Family related issues.
• Weight and finances.
• Finances and work resulting in less time with people I love.
• Children.
• When my pupils do not turn up in time.

• QUESTION 118

WHAT IS THE EMOTION THAT YOU CURRENTLY PREDOMINANTLY EXPERIENCE?

• The following were mentioned more than once:
• Happiness – 4 Times.
• Frustration – 4 Times.
• Joy – 3 Times.
• Anxiety / Fear / Worry – 3 Times.
• Depression – Twice.
• Contentment – Twice.

The following answers were received:

• Fear, anxiety regarding absence of light in our environment.
• Irritation at the illogical machinations around the supposed COVID pandemic.
• Worry, how will I survive financially in my old age? That’s 50% of the time. The other 50% is gratitude, for a wonderful life.
• Joy – because I choose it.
• I go from highs to lows a lot, so emotionally changeable.
• Depression, Stressed, Worthless.
• Love.
• Thoughtful.
• Happiness and irritation (when disturbing my peace).
• Anxiety and boredom.
• Inner excitement, optimism.
• Conflicting between joy and frustration.